165: Why He Turned To Porn or Someone Else and Not His Wife - Explained

When pornography use is discovered in a relationship, it obviously has such a huge impact on a wife.

Understandably, she takes it very personal. It makes her question everything about the relationship, him and herself.

She'll often and wonder if she good enough for him? Does he actually love her? If so, how could he have done this? What does all of this mean for me and for us?

These are very difficult questions that she asks, and it comes from a place of broken trust and security.

In the healing process it's very important to have these questions answered and to reconcile how he could've done this if he does love her. 

In today's episode we deep dive on how to make sense of all of this and how to start to heal your relationship.

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