We've done it, we got past the first date and are ready for numero two (which Grace finds harder than the first date, but that's a story for another time). How long should you wait to message someone? How long is too long? We also have a chat about the ideal second date, and then look even further down the track where we do the dreaded DTR - that is "defining the relationship". Also wanna see a pic of a cool sword?! Head over to our Instagram @dunkingbiscuitspodcast and give us a follow/like/subscribe/send the love to everyone you know. And happy end of lockdown to all Victorians!