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On this show…we are going beyond the hammer as we strive to expand our toolbox to handle life’s challenges. Have you ever found yourself approaching every problem with the same solution, even when it’s not the best fit? Maybe you’re the “tough love” person, doling out hard truths when sometimes a little empathy would go further. Or maybe you’re the peacemaker, smoothing things over when what’s really needed is some constructive conflict. We all have our go-to tools, and when they work, they work—but what about when they don’t? That’s why we’re ex...
SHOW NOTES:
On this show…we are going beyond the hammer as we strive to expand our toolbox to handle life’s challenges. Have you ever found yourself approaching every problem with the same solution, even when it’s not the best fit? Maybe you’re the “tough love” person, doling out hard truths when sometimes a little empathy would go further. Or maybe you’re the peacemaker, smoothing things over when what’s really needed is some constructive conflict. We all have our go-to tools, and when they work, they work—but what about when they don’t? That’s why we’re exploring this top of: If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail. This well-known idiom, also called Maslow’s hammer or the law of the instrument, describes our tendency to over-rely on familiar methods, even when they aren’t the best solution.
Think about it: if a hammer is all you know, you’re going to swing at every challenge like it’s a bent nail. But life is full of problems that don’t require brute force—some need a screwdriver, a paintbrush, or maybe just a step back to reassess the whole project. The key to personal and professional growth is recognizing when it’s time to expand your toolbox. Today, we’re exploring why we default to certain ways of thinking, how this impacts our decision-making, and most importantly, how we can cultivate a more adaptable and creative approach to life’s challenges. Let’s trade in our hammers for a full set of tools and learn how to use them!
Test Your Toolbox
Now, let’s put your hammer to the test. Consider the following scenarios and think about how you would instinctively respond. Then, challenge yourself to consider an alternative approach.
🔨 Scenario 1: A friend is venting about a frustrating work situation.
- Your Hammer Response: Do you immediately jump in with advice on how to fix it?
- Alternative Approach: Instead, what if you just listened and validated their feelings?
🔨 Scenario 2: Your team at work isn’t meeting expectations.
- Your Hammer Response: Do you tighten control and micromanage?
- Alternative Approach: What if you opened a dialogue to understand their challenges and adjusted expectations accordingly?
🔨 Scenario 3: You’re overwhelmed with a busy schedule.
- Your Hammer Response: Do you push through, working harder without considering other options?
- Alternative Approach: Could you delegate, restructure your time, or simply ask for help?
Dr. Justin James Kennedy explores Unlocking the Power of Cognitive Diversity found at Psychology Today
Ben Janse explains Systematic Inventive Thinking (SIT) found at Tools Hero
On the Mental Models Daily YouTube channel, I found some additional real-life examples of Maslow’s Hammer.
CHALLENGE: Recognize when you’re reaching for your proverbial hammer and consider alternative tools. Embrace new perspectives and strategies to enrich your problem-solving repertoire.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
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