122: This Conversation Can Unintentionally Harm Your Ability to Directly Address and Resolve Pornography Use

When struggling to overcome pornography addiction or a habit, have you ever had the conversation that goes something like this:

If there's another relapse again, our marriage is over.

If I catch you watching something again, I'm leaving.

And if you have had that conversation in your relationship, how did it feel?

What effect did it end up having?

So many couples I work with have high standards for their relationship - no pornography.. but what happens when that standard is broken?

Is it possible to have high standards while maintaining room for growth and development? 

This episode, I share with you exactly how you can have this conversation together without feeling stuck and minimize the hiding and lying that occur due to the fears of failure.

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