EP03: No Regrets: Forging My Non-Linear Future with Faith, Fatherhood and Fear

"Are you ready to reevaluate your life in midlife?" This question sets the stage for the latest episode of "Scott Asmar, the Man and Everything in Between." In this episode, Scott delves into the essence of being a man in midlife, emphasizing the importance of understanding various life aspects like finance, parenting, and relationships. He believes that knowing his background is key for listeners to fully grasp the topics discussed.

 

Scott shares his upbringing in a large Armenian Orthodox Christian family, highlighting the profound impact of regular church attendance on his faith journey. He emphasizes the core values of love and acceptance in Christianity, making it clear that his approach is not about judgment or condemnation.

 

Discussing his educational background, Scott reveals his extensive academic journey, including a bachelor's degree in psychology, a master's in counseling education, and a Ph.D. in counseling human services. He recounts his early career as a study coordinator for psychiatric drug research and his significant transition to becoming a stay-at-home dad, which he considers his greatest accomplishment. Scott stresses the vital role of being present and actively involved in raising children.

 

Delving into fatherhood, Scott offers insights on the critical role fathers play in their children's lives. He notes that fathers are the first significant male influence in their daughters' lives and provide a foundation of strength and stability for their sons. He advises young fathers on the importance of spending quality time with their children and creating a structured environment for them.

 

As his children grew up and left home, Scott found himself at a crossroads, eager to pursue his dreams and explore new paths. He encourages listeners to confront their fears and take action, sharing his personal journey of chasing an acting career and participating in showcases. Despite the challenges and lack of immediate success, Scott views each experience as a stepping stone and remains committed to his aspirations.

 

This episode of "Scott Asmar, the Man and Everything in Between" offers a rich tapestry of the host's life experiences, focusing on love, acceptance, the joys of parenting, and the courage to chase dreams. It's a heartfelt call to action for men in midlife to reevaluate and rejuvenate their lives.

 

Quotes:

“Christians were put here not to judge and condemn, but to love and embrace all. And I want my listeners to know that that is the foundation for me and my Christian faith is to love and embrace. I'm not here to judge and condemn.” (2:55 | Scott Asmar)

 

“During those formative years, raising the children, you have to put yourself in the backseat, you have to put your your needs kind of on hold, which leads into the next takeoff, which is once you have launched them, as they say, and they are out of the house, then it can revert back to you.” (8:37 | Scott Asmar) 

 

Everybody hears everything, but only few listen to anything. And I want all of you to see everything, to listen to everything, and absorb all the knowledge that's around you each day. (13:06 | Scott Asmar) 

Links

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