Are you a Single Christian Parent? – Tips for Spiritually Supporting Your Children

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Single Christian Parent – Tips for Spiritually Supporting Your Children

 

Things not to do –

--Don’t badmouth the unsaved parent or the divorced parent. “Don’t listen to your mom.” Better way to approach that. “What does God say?” You can pray together for the unbelieving person.

--Don’t give in to depression, hopelessness, fear over ruining the kid because it’s just you. Don’t give up!

 

1. Trust God – He will do His part

Though it’s not ideal for both parents not to be Christians, God can work in spite of that.

Example: Timothy (with solid faith of mom and grandma)

Not ideal to be raised by one parent, God does amazing things there too!

 

2. You do your part – Be intentional

Work to build the relationship.

Be honest about your own limitations (time, work hours, expectations). God will provide.

Help child to learn to trust God as you trust Him, too.

Spend time in the Word of God together. Take child to church (if can).

Share your own spiritual testimony with them, apply Bible truths to daily life, pray together, etc. Make sure your spiritual life is open to your children, invite them into your relationship with God.

Try to provide good alternatives for your child if you have to be working and gone. -- library, creative outlets. Not just leaving them to video games, movies, etc.

Your attitude is so important! Don’t let regrets, past mistakes, etc. weigh you down and color how you move forward.

You, as the parent, can do a lot to encourage spiritual growth

 

 

3. Look for and Rely on the Christians around you

-- Christians in your own family (role models)

-- Christian role models in your church family

Connect your child with those who can assist in the gaps of your own parenting.

Pull in your church family – If you have no Christian wife, look for Christian women in your church who could meet some of those needs, be a good role model for your daughter. Don’t be afraid to ask for help! Look for the man who can be a dad to your son or the woman who can be a mom to your daughter. Encourage those relationships with healthy couples. Encourage friendships with girls (or boys if sons) who have healthy relationships with their parents.

 

4. Expect and trust your child to do his/her part, too. They must choose and respond.

Sometimes we feel bad for our kids, so we as parents try to overprotect them. It’s difficult, but God uses difficulties to grow people, too!

 

 

It is difficult. It’s not what you chose necessarily, but God can still do great things in you and your children!

Be patient over time, do the best you can, be open with your kids, understand that God is at work. Be in it for the long haul.

 

It is one day at a time. God is doing His part, you do yours and trust Him with the results!