Hanky Code

This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re getting into the color-coded, leather-scented, and unapologetically kinky world of the Hanky Code with my guest Kaleidoscope Onyx (@kittykalei).

 

Once a secret language used in underground queer spaces, the hanky code told you everything you needed to know about someone’s desires—who they were, what they wanted, and how they liked it. But what happens when we look at it through a Black and POC queer lens?

 

Kitty and I dive deep into how this code of signals and seduction connects to our own sexual identities, our kinks, and the ways we show up in play spaces and community. We talk about visibility, desire, and how we’ve created our own ways of communicating pleasure and power when the mainstream often leaves us out.

 

From red flags to yellow fantasies, left pockets to right—this episode peels back the layers of what turns us on, what frees us, and what the hanky code still teaches us about sexual liberation today.

 

💦 Tune in, tap in, and let’s get freaky.
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