Episode #24 How to Tame Your Man

Episode #23: How to Tame Your Man 

• Changing Behavior - Adjusting Behavior
  • Two ppl from two different worlds

• Never come at or attack your man for something he’s done. (Push - Push back)
• Adjusting behavior slowly but surely:  HOW.
  • Shaping behavior - Skinner
  • Acknowledge Small wins (too many ppl only recognize the “wrongs”)
  • Know it’s gonna take some time - Patience & Grace

 

• Frame question in a curiosity frame vs accusatory tone - 
  • Come from a place of love
  • Softeners
    • Because I care about our relationship
    • “I need your help on something” 
    • I’m having a hard time with this… 
    • I’m concerned about...

Action Steps

1. Never attack your partner for something they've done.

2. Realize there will be challenges along the way

3. Changing behavior is a process. 

4. Acknowledge "Winning" Behavior

5. Approach with Love

6. Use Curiosity Frames 

 

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