Why You’re Still Stuck: Masculine & Feminine Energy, Inner Child Healing & Sovereignty After Betrayal
“You might not like your choices—but you do have them. You are an adult. And that means you have power.”
In this powerful, soul-level conversation, Lora goes deep into why healing doesn’t work for so many women—even when they’re doing all the therapy, reading, journaling, and emotional work. And the answer? It’s not about trying harder. It’s about energy balance, integration, and ...
Why You’re Still Stuck: Masculine & Feminine Energy, Inner Child Healing & Sovereignty After Betrayal
“You might not like your choices—but you do have them. You are an adult. And that means you have power.”
In this powerful, soul-level conversation, Lora goes deep into why healing doesn’t work for so many women—even when they’re doing all the therapy, reading, journaling, and emotional work. And the answer? It’s not about trying harder. It’s about energy balance, integration, and inner sovereignty.
Start Here – A Quick Note About This Episode
This is a deeper episode—a masterclass-style conversation that weaves together multiple advanced healing concepts:
- Masculine vs. feminine energy integration
- Inner child vs. adult self
- Partner polarity and healing dynamics
- Structure vs. surrender in recovery
If one part hits you harder than another, trust that. Healing is layered. You might come back and re-listen again and again as you grow. Let this episode meet you exactly where you are.
Top 3 Takeaways:
- Energy is Everything: You can’t heal without a balance of masculine (structure, leadership) and feminine (emotion, flow) energies—within yourself and your relationship.
- You Are Not a Child Anymore: Learning to separate your adult self from your wounded inner child is how you reclaim your power and end the fear of abandonment.
- Healing Is Not Linear—It’s Energetic, Emotional, and Embodied: If you’ve been stuck in your head or in endless tears, it’s time to realign and embody the opposite energy to create balance and momentum.
This Episode Is for You If:
- You feel like you’ve “done everything right” in your healing journey, but still feel stuck
- You’re overwhelmed with emotion or paralyzed by logic—and don’t know how to move forward
- You want to understand the deep emotional and energetic dynamics between you and your partner
- You’re ready to integrate your inner child, reclaim your adult power, and rise
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About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
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