My close friends also ask me why I become more magnetic and dynamic after a break-up. The answer is: Shadow Work. Because a break-up and heartache is so acutely painful, it causes your awareness into the parts of your heart and the parts of your authenticity that are boxed up and usually suppressed. Using these 5 steps, you can effectively heal your broken heart, get over your ex, and emerge as the wildly attractive and magnetic, "next-level" version of yourself.