11: 10 Micro Relationship GOALS: How to Become 1% more Secure every day

✨ How to Become 1% More Secure Every Day ✨

START HERE: 3min QUIZ: Find Your TOP 2 UNMET NEEDS: To stop sabotaging Yourself

Ever feel like “becoming secure” is just too big to figure out? You’re not alone. In this episode, I’m breaking it down with:

• 10 micro-goal examples like pausing before texting for reassurance or naming the story in your head.
• How to stop overthinking and take small steps to feel calmer every day.
• Simple ways to rewire anxious thoughts using neuroscience.

These tiny changes helped me heal my anxious attachment—now they can help you too! 💛

For example..

• Pause for 10 minutes before texting your partner for reassurance and remind yourself, "I'm safe."
• Name the story in your head, like “He’s pulling away because I’m not enough,” and ask, “Is this a fact or just a fear?”
• Challenge fear-based thoughts by asking, “What’s the worst-case scenario? Is it true?” and replace them with neutral thoughts.

 

Find out how to feel a little more secure starting today...

 

3min QUIZ: Find Your TOP 2 UNMET NEEDS: To stop sabotaging Yourself

 

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