Want to Win? Stop Doing This Immediately!

When you blame, you give away your power—the power to change, improve, and take control of your own success.

Stan, a 23-year-old golfer at the University of Arizona, had all the talent to go pro. But every time something went wrong, he had an excuse. Bad round? The greens were awful. Missed putt? Caddy’s fault. Bad grade? The professor didn’t like him.

Then, one morning, he came across a podcast that shook him—as long as he blamed others, he was giving them control over his life.

That moment changed everything.

Instead of making excuses, he started looking for solutions. He asked better questions, took responsibility, and finally started improving. And when the PGA Tour came calling, it wasn’t luck. It was because he earned it.

📍 You can blame or you can improve—but not both. The second you take ownership, your life shifts.

So here’s your challenge: Where in your life do you need to stop pointing fingers and start taking control?

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