S1:E29 – Jane & Isabel

How Jane overcame IVF setbacks, found hope with a known donor, and welcomed her daughter, Isabel.

In this deeply personal episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Jane shares her inspiring journey to becoming a solo mum by choice to her daughter, Isabel. After years of knowing she wanted children but not finding the right relationship, Jane decided to pursue motherhood on her own terms. Her path included multiple rounds of IVF, the devastation of a miscarriage, and an unexpected yet perfect arrangement with a known donor—her friend’s brother.

Jane’s story highlights her unwavering determination to become a mum, the challenges of fertility treatments, and the beautiful bond she’s built with her daughter, her donor, and the extended donor family. Her candid discussion about navigating donor agreements, advocating for herself through setbacks, and creating a loving environment for Isabel is both heartfelt and empowering.

Key Takeaways:

• Making the decision to pursue solo motherhood in her late 30s.

• Navigating IVF, low AMH reserves, and the emotional toll of failed cycles.

• Experiencing a miscarriage and finding hope in the process.

• Choosing a known donor and managing expectations around involvement.

• Building a supportive village for Isabel with family, friends, and her donor's family.

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