Are You The Problem?

2023-09-26

After having a discussion on our TikTok Live with some of our followers regarding jealousy and your reaction to your partner looking at other people, liking someone's pic on socials, or just how they react to others beauty. We thought it would be great episode for those of you struggling with this. Is it jealousy, or just insecurities that you are dealing with? That is the question you need to answer! As we get older we get scared by our human experiences. We put up walls or come up with insecurities that don't really...

Is it jealousy, or just insecurities that you are dealing with? That is the question you need to answer! As we get older we get scared by our human experiences. We put up walls or come up with insecurities that don't really exist. We tend to think everything is the same story. "If someone cheated on you, then they all will."

Well its time to debunk that. By not blaming the new people in your life for things others did to you. By working on your own self talk. Positive self talk will do wonders for your mental health and mind set.

If you keep the same mind set and insecurities in all your relationships. Then you will notice that same issues come up with everyone. You own mind set and self talk make you attract the same kind of people. Or you can create issues that don't really exist.

After all we are all human. We have eyes. Even though you are a beautiful person. There are plenty of other beautiful people out there. It would be impossible not to notice this. I mean, even your first thought when you see someone beautiful is to admire the beauty. You do it when you watch a movie or music video.

"Oh wow look at how hot Jason Mamoa looks" or "Daym look how sexy Jenifer Lopez looks in that dress".

It doesn't mean you will run away from your person & jump in someone else's arms. After all they did choose to be with you. They love YOU. For who you are as well as your beauty.

You are just appreciating beauty. Imagine not being allowed to do so.

Wouldn't you rather appreciate beauty together. As apposed to hiding it or having to lie about it.

Give these tips a try in your relationship. Its worked wonders for us.

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