How to heal your relationship with your family

Have you ever heard that quote - 

Don’t look back you are not going that way?

I used to find this inspiring until I realized that I was constantly running. 

 

Running from myself, running from the past, putting all of the trauma and negativity under the rug so I can’t see it. And when we don’t see it we can’t feel it, right?

Not so much my love. 

 

In order to create an abundant life, you get to embrace it all. 

The past, present and future. 

 

You get to make peace with your past, acknowledge it and understand why you are who you are. 

 

One of the biggest parts that forms who we really are today are our parents. 

 

You might love them, hate them, ignore them, whatever you want, yet they will always be a big part of you. 

 

That’s why I want to share with you my three steps to heal your relationship with your parents so you can move forward in a direction that is really true to you. 

 

1. Take a radical responsibility
   You are the creator of your life and your experiences.
   I believe we have picked our parents before we were born to this world for the experiences we needed in this lifetime.
   So, if you have picked them, why would you blame them now? Isn’t it more empowering to be the chooser and creator?
   
   
2. See your parents as a little child
   It is so easy to point fingers at our parents because they didn’t meet our expectations.
   Would you though speak to a little child like you are speaking to an adult?
   Next time you think about or speak to your parents you imagine them as a little child vs an adult who you feel you have to prove and validate yourself to.
   
   
3. Distance yourself from those who weigh you down
   You don’t serve anyone by dining your light.
   BE the change you want to see in the world and others will be inspired by you.
   Even when it means to distance yourself from those who can’t meet you where you are.
   Love them, stay connected, and create boundaries that feel right to you. 

I would love to hear from you. What is your relationship with your parents? 

Have you ever gone through or desire to heal your relationship with your parents? DM me on Instagram @petiakolibova or shoot me an email at hello@petiakolibova.com

 

Ps. Remember you came here to be the creator and live in freedom. 

And if you are not living in the freedom YET make sure to download my freebie The roadmap to Freedom where I teach how to get crystal clear on what you stand for so you can have a blueprint to make aligned and empowered decisions every step of the way. 

 

That means you will finally create the life of your desires and overflowing abundance. 

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