Are you going to live your life as a victim or a victor? Your Choice! EP 17

In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni explores the concept of victimhood versus victor mentality. He questions whether being a victim means avoiding failure and discusses the balance between victimhood in our heads versus reality. Josh encourages listeners to change their mindset from victim to victor and asks if they are willing to put in the work. He also emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for our actions and learning from our experiences. The episode concludes with a discussion on breaking free from victimhood and the benefits of being a victor. Let us know what you think!

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Resources

Failure to Launch- Grief

Failure to Launch- Fear

Stillness Speaks, Eckhart Tolle: https://amzn.to/4bX2Wpr

Night Trilogy, Elie Wiesel: https://amzn.to/4bOx8TW

Man's Search for Meaning, Viktor Frankl: https://amzn.to/3R8EIR9

12 step resentment inventory: https://thestepsyoutook.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/step4_inventory_page_5.jpg?w=791

How To Blame Effectively, Tony Robbins: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nqw0FZdQl-k

 

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: Victim vs. Victor

04:16 How have I failed lately?

07:46 Do victims even exist?

12:35 Victim Identity: am I a victim or is it just in my head?

29:13 Letting go of resentments and grievances

33:04 Break free of your victim identity!