6/29/25 - The Unforgiving Servant - Matthew 18:23-35 - Pastor Steve Johnson

C.S. Lewis once said, “Everyone thinks forgiveness is a lovely idea until he has something to forgive.” Isn’t it interesting that, perhaps, the two most difficult phrases to utter are: “I’m sorry” and “I forgive you.”

 

In Matthew 18:21-35, Jesus responds to a question from Peter about the extent of forgiveness. Jesus answers with the parable of the unforgiving servant in order to illustrate the necessity of forgiveness. The parable highlights that because God has forgiven us much, we should extend forgiveness to others, even when it's difficult or seems impossible.

 

As we prepare to share in the Lord’s Table this Sunday, Jesus’ words are strong reminders of God’s mercy and compassion in sending His Son to the cross on our behalf, and how that can and should motivate us to handle the difficult relationships in our lives.

 

I’ve come to learn that God is never more like God than when He forgives, and we are never more like God than we forgive. That says two things to me. First, we can find the forgiveness we are looking for and need in Him. Secondly, we can truly open our hearts to forgiving others when we understand how much we have been forgiven.