133 - When Both Are Hurting: The Complex Layers of Recovery

Life and recovery are rarely simple. Sometimes, unique dynamics add even more layers to an already complex journey.

In this episode, Kylene and Patrick explore three challenging scenarios that can complicate the recovery process:

 

• What if the betrayed partner has also struggled with addiction but in another form?
• What if the betrayed partner has also had an affair in the past? 
• What if the betrayed partner has looked at porn? 

 

Together, they unpack why personal responsibility matters, how choosing individual health impacts the relationship, and the importance of showing empathy for the pain we may have caused—whether intentional or not—even when we’ve been hurt ourselves.

These are tough conversations, and one episode can’t cover every nuance. We encourage you to seek guidance from trusted professionals who can support you in your unique situation.

 

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

 

Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 

 

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 

 

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

On IG: @KyleneTerhune