You Can’t Be Their God: How to Let Go of Over-Functioning and Trust God with Their Growth

Are you exhausted from carrying emotional burdens that aren’t yours to carry? In this episode of the Bold Becomers Podcast, Chara dives deep into a spiritually freeing truth: You can’t be their God. If you’ve been losing sleep over someone else’s decisions, feeling responsible for their breakthrough, or wearing yourself out trying to manage outcomes in other people’s lives—this episode is for you. Through biblical wisdom, personal transparency, and practical steps rooted in the SHINE Method, you’ll learn: • How to stop over-functioning for others • Why trying to “fix” people can actually hinder their spiritual growth • What spiritual boundaries look like for empathetic women with discernment • How to shift from over-involvement to Spirit-led support • Five practical ways to release control and point people back to God By the end, you’ll walk away with both spiritual relief and tangible tools to set emotional boundaries, steward your light, and trust God with both your growth and theirs. Key Takeaways • Emotional Freedom: Release the pressure to fix, control, or rescue people you love. • Spiritual Maturity: Learn to trust God’s process in their lives without inserting yourself where God didn’t assign you. • Stronger Boundaries: Understand how to offer help without overstepping, leading to healthier relationships. • Discernment in Action: Practical steps to balance empathy with Spirit-led restraint. • Peace of Mind: Experience reduced anxiety and emotional exhaustion by staying in your lane spiritually. Let’s Stay Connected: 👉 Join the Free Bold Becomers Circle: For encouragement, community, and ongoing bold becoming resources. https://charajaneshine.com/BoldBecomers 👉 Ready to Go Deeper? Check out the Live With Shine Collective: Get access to live coaching moments, workshops, and community accountability for your personal growth journey. https://livewithshine.com