The ADHD Smarter Parenting‘s Podcast
Kids & Family:Parenting
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In today’s episode, Parenting Coach Siope Kinikini continues the discussion of The ABC’s of Behavior and how it can help you create a happier family life.
When you can understand why behavior happens, it is easier to take steps to prevent it. Sometimes though, it can be hard to figure out why behavior happens. In those cases, Siope Kinikini recommends looking at five things that could have contributed to the meltdown.
Are they sleepy? Are they getting enough good sleep?
Are they hungry? Are they eating a healthy diet?
Do they have a disability?
Was there a change in their environment?
Was there an interruption to their schedule?
Understanding that these things could lead to tantrums allows you to make changes before the tantrums even happen.
If they’re tired, you could have them do quiet time, nap, or watch a TV show. If they are hungry, you could give them a snack and set up a snack schedule. If they have a hard time processing things due to a disability, you could provide them with space and understanding that allows them not to become overwhelmed. If there is a change in the environment, you can acknowledge that it can be difficult and help prepare them before changes happen. If there’s an interruption to the schedule, you can reduce interruptions, set a timer for transitions, or finish certain tasks.
All of these things take less work and energy than dealing with a tantrum once it’s begun and allows you to have the energy to spend on creating a relationship. If you’re not spending as much time dealing with tantrums, you can play a game, or read a book, or go out with friends.
The ABC’s of Behavior is incredibly powerful in helping you understand your child. It’s even more powerful when applied to yourself. You can use the ABC’s of Behavior to determine how you react to certain behaviors and what you can do to change it, you will be happier and more in control of situations.
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Announcement: Warm welcome to our newest Parenting Coach Kimber Petersen
Ep #151: Feeling judged as a parent
Ep #150:Dealing with parenting differences and finding common ground
Ep #149: Seeing weaknesses as strengths
Ep #148: Time management strategies using the SODAS Method
Ep #147: When parents disagree on parenting
Ep #146: Moving beyond the ADHD label
Ep #145: Helping kids deal with emotional dysregulation using Effective Praise
Ep #144: ADHD and trauma
Ep #143: Techniques to help kids with ADHD get things done
Ep #142: Getting kids to listen without yelling
Ep #141: Behavior skills will give you confidence in your parenting
Ep #140: Connecting with your child instead of controlling them
Ep #139: Why parents shouldn't use corporal punishment when disciplining
Ep #138: Changing defiant behavior
Ep #137: Focusing on what kids do right
Ep #136: Using behavior skills with ADHD and ODD
Ep #135: Recognizing our parenting weaknesses
Ep #134: Preventing parenting burnout
Ep #133: Parenting wisdom from The Karate Kid
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