How I Balance Family, Work & Community Effortlessly

Hey, loves! It’s your girl, Phi, back with another soulful episode of A Likkle of This and A Little of Dat. Today, we’re diving deep into the questions YOU sent in — all about balancing career, family, and personal purpose in a way that’s real, honest, and rooted in love.

We explore what balance truly looks like (hint: it’s not equal time!), why boundaries matter, how to care for yourself without guilt, and how to stay grounded when family support is missing. Plus, I’m sharing what it means to serve the community without starving your home, and why your purpose is not up for a vote.

Episode Highlights:

00:00 – Intro & Family Role in Busy Life
01:09 – Continued Reflection on Family’s Role
02:27 – Balancing Career, Goals, and Family
08:28 – Dealing with Lack of Support from Family
13:37 – Is Self-Care Selfish?
14:38 – Reconnecting with Family After Life Changes
19:36 – Final Thoughts on Family and Ambition
20:34 – Outro

Key Takeaways: ✨ Balance is about being intentional, not dividing hours equally
🧭 Boundaries are an act of self-respect — set them with love and without guilt
💖 Self-care isn’t selfish — it’s the foundation for showing up fully for others
🔥 Your purpose is not up for a vote — own it, protect it, walk in it
🏡 Don’t serve the community at the expense of your home — both matter

Closing Thoughts:
Balance isn’t something we find — it’s something we create. Through habits, passion, boundaries, and intention, you can live a life that reflects who you are and what you love. Don’t apologize for being real. And remember: when you show up with love, everything shifts.

What’s one thing you’ll take away from this episode? Let’s keep the conversation going — comment, rate, and share A Likkle of This and A Little of Dat.

Until next time, it’s your girl, Phi. Enough respect. And remember: if you can’t be authentic, you’re not being you. 💕