147: Tools to Help Your Relationship Progress If She Brings Up Her Pain

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     Today’s Episode:

Have you ever had the experience where things feel relatively calm between you and your spouse?

And you think things are going well, then out of nowhere she brings up her pain from the past, and her husband is completely caught off guard.

Just the mirror mention of the past that she is still hurting seems to cause things to spiral or him to shut down because of discouragement.

It’s a reminder that things aren't back to normal yet and that there are still issues that haven’t been resolved.

In today's episode I want to share with you how you can navigate these moments and a new way to look at this situation to give you some encouragement and hope that you guys can get through this.

 

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