42. Evaluating Your Inner Circle… Are Your Relationships Fanning Your Flame or Blowing It Out?

In this episode of the Her.Unlocked Podcast, I want to talk to you about assessing the relationships in your life currently. It is important to pay attention and intentionally curate our inner circle of influence with intentionality. I am going to be talking about how to reflect on the relationships in your life, when and how to take a step back or set boundaries when needed, and share my personal experiences with this while cultivating the types of circles I want to be in.

A lot of effort and energy goes into our relationships which is why it is so important to keep in check with who you are allowing in the inner circle. What is your energy like when you are around others? That is a quick way to notice if someone is serving you in a positive way. 

3 Powerful Questions to Reflect on this Week: 

1. Do the 5 people you spend the most time with fan your flame or blow it out?
2. What is a boundary you can set if one or more of them are flame blowers? 
3. Who can you invite into your circle of influence that you know will fan your flame?

If you loved this episode, share it with your “flame thrower” & thank them for being a light in your life!

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Episode Outline: 

Flame Blowers and Flame Protectors [00:01:15] 

Setting Boundaries and Protecting Your Peace [00:04:24] 

Creating Space for Radical Responsibility [00:11:56] 

Unlocking Clarity, Confidence, and Courage [00:13:20] 

Assessing Your Circle of Influence [00:19:51] 

Setting Boundaries with Unavoidable Relationships [00:24:43] 

Creating Space for Self-Reflection [00:35:14] 

Investing in Relationships [00:37:51] 

Curating Your Circle of Influence [00:38:26]