The Woman You See

2024-01-20

We as persons are so much of the people who inhabit our lives. Not only by way of how they are connected to us and change the trajectory of our lives, but what they mean to us by way of how our souls evolve. But beyond it all is their influence on our minds and hearts to define to us what we are. Sometimes we are unsure of our own abilities to achieve, to fulfil, to create. And though we might be brimming with every talent, we might be an uncertain wreck inside, unable to comprehend the intensity of our own possibilities. And then so...

Sometimes we are unsure of our own abilities to achieve, to fulfil, to create. And though we might be brimming with every talent, we might be an uncertain wreck inside, unable to comprehend the intensity of our own possibilities.

And then someone in our life comes by and refuses to accept our limitations.

They keep seeing beyond, they keep seeking more, they keep insisting that we are much more, that we are needlessly imprisoning ourselves in a low opinion of ourselves, and we can be beyond everything we can comprehend.

I remember a Japanese story where a girl considered plain by the whole world and jeered at whenever she came out of her house, is wooed by the most eligible man in the village, and he proposes with a record number of buffaloes, which nobody in the village could even comprehend. And soon enough the girl grows into becoming the beauty which her beau saw inside her.

Of course the story is allegorical, but it’s truth is not.

We grow into our best selves when someone refuses to believe that we are anything less.

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