131 Building Lasting Relationships with Dr. Clarence and Brenda Shuler

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131. Building Lasting Relationships with Dr. Clarence and Brenda Shuler

 

“But I confess my sins I am deeply sorry for what I have done. Come quickly to help me, O Lord my savior. -Psalm 38:18 and 22 NLT

 

CLARENCE SHULER (Ph.D.) is the President/CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships, which conducts marriage, singles, men’s, parenting, biblical diversity, overcoming pornography (for men/boys & girls) seminars throughout the United States and internationally. He and Brenda, his wife, are members of FamilyLife’s Marriage Speaker team. They won the 2019 FamilyLife Marriage Conference Speakers of the Year Award. Clarence did a film session as a marriage expert for Oprah’s Love Goals, a relationship reality show. He does professional cross-cultural consulting for churches and organizations such as the U.S. Air Force, the U.S. Army, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, the Evangelical Free Church of America, Moody Bible Institute and Wycliffe Bible Translators. Frequently, he speaks for Iron Sharpens Iron and in National Football League chapels. Formerly, he was President of Moody Bible Institute’s Alumni Board. Clarence has authored eight books, including Choose Greatness: 11 Wise Decisions That Brave Young Men Make, co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman and Keeping Your Wife Your Best Friend. Dr. Chapman and Dr. Shuler speak together at relationship events.

 

Brenda Shuler is a gifted national speaker. As the Manager over Bridges of Hope & Client Care for Life Network, a post-abortion ministry to men and women, she helps them to heal from the pain of their past. Brenda is a former teacher for a Colorado Springs citywide women’s Bible Study. She’s the Executive Administrator for BLR: Building Lasting Relationships. Most importantly, Brenda keeps the Shuler household running smoothly.

 

Veterans of the pastorate, educational services, a variety of non-profit and corporate consulting; they have three adult daughters and reside in Colorado Springs, CO.

 

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Building Lasting Relationships Website

Books Authored and Co-Authored by Dr. Clarence Shuler:

Keeping Your Wife Your Best Friend

Single and Free To Be Me

The Challenge:: Cultivating Disciples That Last

Choose Greatness: 11 Decisions Young Men Need to Make

What All Dads Should Know

Your Wife Can Be Your Best Friend

Building Unity in the Church of the New Millennium

 

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Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)

 

Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”

 

Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”

 

Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.” 

 

Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.” 

 

Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” 

 

Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.” 

 

John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

 

Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” 

 

Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”

 

Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”

 

Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession- to the praise of his glory.”

 

Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”

 

Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“

 

Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“

 

Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”