Sermon on the Mount - Meaning What You Say, And Forgiving Anyway

MESSAGE | JORDAN MOODY
Matthew 5:33-42

Introduction (Judges 11:29-40) 

I. Meaning What You Say (Matthew 5:33-37)

II. Forgiving Anyway (Matthew 5:38-42)

The Problem: The Cycle of Retribution  

The Solution: Love Over Revenge 

Turn the other cheek (v. 39): Choose humility over retaliation in personal injury.  

Give your cloak (v. 40): Go beyond what’s required in disputes.  

Go the extra mile (v. 41): Serve even under unfair authority.  

Give to those who ask (v. 42): Be generous when able, with discernment.

 

Small Group Discussion Questions

1. How have you seen manipulative speech (e.g., flippant promises or exaggerated oaths) harm relationships in your life or others’? How can you cultivate more honesty in your words?  

2. Read James 5:12. How does this passage reinforce Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 5:33-37? Why is simple, truthful speech so important in God’s kingdom?  

 

3. In what areas (e.g., social media, work, church) are you tempted to project a false image? How can you align your words and actions with authenticity?

 

4. Why is the world’s “eye for an eye” approach so appealing, and why does it fail to bring true satisfaction? Share an example of a time you sought “fairness” but it didn’t resolve the issue.  

 

5. How do we balance Jesus’ teaching on forgiveness with the need for justice or safety (e.g., in abusive situations)? Discuss how discernment plays a role.

6. How does knowing God’s love and forgiveness for us (e.g., Jesus on the cross) empower us to forgive others? Reflect on a specific situation where this truth could change your response.