Self Obsessed

how to MASTER self-love while dating | detachment, boundaries, & self-worth no one talks about

mastering self-love while dating isn’t always easy — especially when no one talks about the detachment, boundaries, confidence, and self-worth it really takes. if you’ve ever felt like you start shrinking in relationships, this video is for you. i’m sharing the exact mindset shifts that helped me stay independent, grounded, and fully in my power while navigating love. after spending time single, focused on building my dream life and reconnecting with myself, i learned that the right relationship should expand your world — not consume it. whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or healing from one, this video will help you protect your peace, stop overgiving, and keep becoming her — the woman you were always meant to be. 💅🏽💖♡  WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Self-Love and Independence02:21 Chapter 1: The Talk08:44 Chapter 2: The Lifestyle15:43 Chapter 3: Homework18:48 Final Thoughts🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTIONuse my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!SELF OBSESSED JOURNALPRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNALORDER MY BOOKTHE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTERSTAY CONNECTED:MY INSTAGRAMMY SNAPCHAT [BTS]MY YOUTUBEMY VLOGSLISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMSPODCAST INSTAGRAMMY OTHER LINKSBusiness enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

the 5 laws of self-obsession | how to build unshakable confidence & start choosing YOU

the 5 laws of self-obsession aren’t about being selfish — they’re about how to build unshakable confidence, protect your peace, and start choosing you. in this episode, i share the mindset shifts that helped me heal, stop people pleasing, and finally become the most confident, grounded version of myself. we’ll talk self-love, boundaries, personal growth, and how to rewrite the stories you tell yourself. if you’ve ever been told you’re “too much” for simply prioritizing yourself — this one’s for you. ✨ it’s time to reclaim your power and start living for you. 💅🏽💭💖♡  WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:00:00 Introduction: Why Self-Obsession Isn’t Selfish01:11 Critique of Societal Views on Self-Obsession02:41 Law 1: The Mirror Law06:22 Law 2: The Boundary Law08:25 Law 3: The Celebration Law10:18 Law 4: The Upgrade Law13:04 Law 5: The Rewire Law15:52 Final Words of Empowerment🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTIONuse my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!SELF OBSESSED JOURNALPRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNALORDER MY BOOKTHE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTERSTAY CONNECTED:MY INSTAGRAMMY SNAPCHAT [BTS]MY YOUTUBEMY VLOGSLISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMSPODCAST INSTAGRAMMY OTHER LINKSBusiness enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

watch this when you're in a slump

feeling stuck or in a slump? here’s your sign to reset and realign 🫶 i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 7 reminders and mindset shifts that helped me break out of low-energy phases and reconnect with my higher self. we’ll talk about how to stop spiraling, reconnect with your future self, and turn quiet seasons into your biggest growth moments. whether you’re going through a rough patch or just feeling off, this is your sign to reset, reflect, and step into your comeback era.🛍️ shop my abbott lyon collection: https://www.abbottlyon.io/TamKaur-YouTube-Collectionuse my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 for buy one get one FREE sitewide!♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:00:00 – Overcoming the Slump Phase01:14 – Fact 1: Emotions Are Not Reality03:19 – Fact 2: It's Just a Phase05:27 – Fact 3: Stop Identifying with the Slump06:59 – Fact 4: One Decision Away08:32 – Fact 5: Future Self Knows Best10:32 – Fact 6: Resisting the Next Version of You12:28 – Fact 7: You Are Resilient13:28 – Final MotivationSHOP & LINKS:SELF OBSESSED JOURNALPRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNALORDER MY BOOKTHE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTERSTAY CONNECTED:MY INSTAGRAMMY SNAPCHAT [BTS]MY YOUTUBEMY VLOGSLISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMSPODCAST INSTAGRAMMY OTHER LINKSBusiness enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

relationship RED flags that are actually GREEN | 10 healthy dating signs every woman needs to know

💚 you might be pushing away healthy love without even realizing it. in today’s episode, we’re talking about the 10 “red flags” in men that are actually signs of emotional maturity — and why your past might be making you miss them. from taking time to reply, moving slow, having female friends, or even being a little “boring”… these things aren’t toxic, they’re actually green flags 🫶🛍️ shop my abbott lyon collection: https://www.abbottlyon.io/TamKaur-YouTube-Collectionuse my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 for buy one get one FREE sitewide!♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:00:00 – Introduction01:45 – Debunking Dating Red Flags01:49 – Green Flag #1: He is Picky03:13 – Green Flag #2: He Rejects You04:54 – Green Flag #3: No Past Relationships05:55 – Green Flag #4: Has Female Friends07:11 – Green Flag #5: Takes Time to Texting Back09:03 – Green Flag #6: Challenges You10:36 – Green Flag #7: He Has His Own Life12:03 – Green Flag #8: He Moves Slow13:53 – Green Flag #9: There Are No Sparks15:48 – ConclusionSHOP & LINKS:SELF OBSESSED JOURNALPRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNALORDER MY BOOKTHE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTERSTAY CONNECTED:MY INSTAGRAMMY SNAPCHAT [BTS]MY YOUTUBEMY VLOGSLISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMSPODCAST INSTAGRAMMY OTHER LINKSBusiness enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

it’s time YOU became the center of your own universe | detachment, inner peace & true confidence

tired of people-pleasing, overthinking, and chasing validation? it’s time to detach, reclaim your confidence, and become the center of your own universe. ✨ we’re talking detachment, self-trust, and the quiet kind of confidence that comes from within. i’ll take you through the exact mindset shifts and weekly habits that help you stop people-pleasing, reconnect with your body, and protect your energy. this isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about coming home to yourself. If you’re in your self-love era and ready to let go of external validation, this one’s for you 💌♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Decentering01:58 Chapter 1: Decentering Everyone and Taking Control of Your Life09:59 Chapter 2: Centering Yourself and Becoming Self-Obsessed16:45 Chapter 3: Homework: Practical Steps to Self-Centering19:04 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsSHOP & LINKS:SELF OBSESSED JOURNALPRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNALORDER MY BOOKTHE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTERSTAY CONNECTED:MY INSTAGRAMMY SNAPCHAT [BTS]MY YOUTUBEMY VLOGSLISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMSPODCAST INSTAGRAMMY OTHER LINKSBusiness enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!