Messy Friendship Lessons

S4 EP1: 6 Friendship Lies that must Die in 2026

Grief and pain have a way of shifting your perspective. The irony isn’t lost on me that I came to you in 2025 with hard truths, only to realise in 2026 that I had been living with quiet lies, beliefs I’d accepted for so long that it took hurt and disappointment to finally expose them.This episode isn’t a rewrite of those hard truths. It’s the burial of old beliefs that were slowly eroding intimacy in my friendships and would have led me down a lonely road.Thank you Jesus, I realised this sooner rather than later!These lies need to go. Quickly. Finally.So let’s grab a shovel.It’s time to bury a lie.

S3 EP10: I HATE my Friend's Boyfriend

I hate my friend’s boyfriend! He’s a liar/cheater/loser/user/toad and she’s a beautiful angel baby princess who deserves so much better. But no matter what I say, she loves that man and keeps going back. What does she even see in him?!If you can relate, same. But there are two sides to this mess and my guest knows the other one very well… because she’s the friend whose boyfriend everyone else hated. And nothing anyone said changed her mind either.So what should friends actually do in this situation? What should we say? And how do you keep a man from coming between your friendship?Join us as we dive into the drama and swap hilarious horror stories of horrible boyfriends. Because truly… it’s friendship over foolishness, every time.

S3 EP9: Stop trying to shove Humble Pie down my throat, I don't want a slice of your Humble Pie!

Humble pie is best served hot—with a side of audacity—and often laced with jealousy or moral superiority. Frankly, I do not want a slice!! The truth? To the insecure, confidence looks like pride, and insecurity masquerades as humility. But real humility isn’t thinking less of yourself—it’s thinking of others more. Biblically, it’s about valuing others above yourself, not denying your worth or shrinking your gifts. Confidence should never be mistaken for Pride. Unlike Pride it doesn’t compare or lord itself over others; it simply walks with its head held high. True humility serves—without pretending to be small.So come, let's talk about the times I was served humble pie and why I have chosen to handle it like Barbie!

S3 EP8: Why You Weren't Invited?

Raise your hand if you’ve ever not been invited to something. More than once? By your friends?! Not being invited sucks, but l think it’s a universal experience!It’s easy to label the person who didn’t invite you as the villian: a mean, fake friend excluding you without a thought for your feelings. But I don’t think it’s always that simple. Sometimes, the reason you weren’t invited has nothing to do with unkindness or secretly not liking you—it might just be a matter of circumstance.In fact, I’d go as far as to say that 80% of the time, it’s not malicious.But what about the other 20%? Don’t worry, we’ll get into how to handle those situations where exclusion is intentional.So, before you jump to conclusions, pause for a moment and ask yourself: could there be more to why I wasn’t invited?

S3 EP7: Why Your Birthday Parties are Cursed...

You might not like what I have to say in this episode, but I have to keep it real with you. If people keep cancelling last minute or not showing up to your birthday parties, I fear you might be doing something wrong.I know how gut-wrenching and heart-breaking this must be. However, if this keeps happening, your guests might not be the villains here. Instead, you could be committing one of the four birthday party crimes. I’m going to break it all down for you and give you the action points you need to break the curse. If you listen with an open heart, I promise you’ll never, ever have a cursed birthday party again.