Wait... Am I Toxic?

142. Stop preaching self care and send me money

Has anyone figured out what self care looks like without needing £1M yet? We sure haven't! Join Fola & Rukiya for yet another chat about how unintentionally neglectful we Black women can be of ourselves, and how we've rediscovered what self care means to us! Follow Us: Instagram: @⁠⁠⁠waitamitoxic⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: @⁠⁠⁠waitamitoxic⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠@waitamitoxic⁠⁠⁠ Fola's IG: @⁠⁠⁠folashade⁠⁠⁠ Fola's Twitter: @⁠⁠⁠fola_shade⁠⁠⁠ Rukiya's IG: @⁠⁠⁠rukiya_newts⁠⁠⁠ Artwork by @⁠⁠⁠WhyZedStudioSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

141. It’s Everyday Racism in the UK

Look at us — consistent QUEENS! We’re back with another episode. Join Fola and Rukiya as we dive into everyday racism in the UK and, honestly, just have a good ol’ catch-up. Expect real talk, laughs, and the kind of honest conversation you’ve come to love. Follow Us: Instagram: @⁠⁠waitamitoxic⁠⁠ Twitter: @⁠⁠waitamitoxic⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠@waitamitoxic⁠⁠ Fola's IG: @⁠⁠folashade⁠⁠ Fola's Twitter: @⁠⁠fola_shade⁠⁠ Rukiya's IG: @⁠⁠rukiya_newts⁠⁠ Artwork by @⁠⁠WhyZedStudioSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

140. Mic check... is this thing on??

We're baaaackkk! Please excuse our oopsie in ghosting ya'll like that, we've very much missed you! Join us this week to hear the very unexciting reason for our break LOL and for a lil chat chat about money, men, and everything in between as per

139. Why won't my friend just forgive me already!?

This week's submitter finds herself in a tricky situation with her best friend. Her best friend says that she's forgiven her for a falling out they had a few years ago, but our toxic submitter is still feeling resentment from her friend lurking! Join Fola & Rukiya to talk about forgiveness, and how not dealing with disappointment in relationships properly can often turn the tables and make you the bad guy!Follow Us:Instagram: @waitamitoxicTwitter: @waitamitoxicTikTok: @waitamitoxicFola's IG: @folashadeFola's Twitter: @fola_shadeRukiya's IG: @rukiya_newtsArtwork by @WhyZedStudioSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

138. Should I Save Or Should I Go?

In this week's episode, Fola and Rukiya help a listener decide whether to take a well-deserved holiday after a tough year or save instead. They dive into the emotional side of spending and why those from less privileged backgrounds shouldn't limit what they can achieve financially in the future. Follow Us:Instagram: @waitamitoxicTwitter: @waitamitoxicTikTok: @waitamitoxicFola's IG: @folashadeFola's Twitter: @fola_shadeRukiya's IG: @rukiya_newtsArtwork by @WhyZedStudioSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.