Coming In Hot

Why Most Marriages Fail (And How We Made It To 20 Years Without Quitting)

Caroline and her husband John celebrate their 20-year anniversary on “Coming In Hot” by walking through a psychologist’s six stages of marriage and sharing what they’ve lived through so far, focusing on the honeymoon, realization, and rebellion stages. They openly discuss early red flags they ignored, especially around money, family dynamics, expectations, and communication, plus moments when the “rose-colored glasses” came off, including John getting fired and how he handled it. They talk about power struggles after kids, feeling controlled or resentful, and how having purpose, boundaries, lists, and honest conversations helped them rebuild connection. They share practical ways they stayed close—weekly date nights, travel, trying new things, and showing affection—while emphasizing respect, trust, patience, and not trying to change each other, ending with a playful lightning round and advice for making marriage last.🎵Music Credit Nikka Costa – “It’s Just Love” Follow Caroline:IG: https://www.instagram.com/shop.with.caroline/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shop.with.carolineFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/beingcarolineSearch Looks: https://www.shop-with-caroline.com/Shop Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/coming-in-hotPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Get 15% off your order of $100 or more at HillHouseHome.Com with code cominginhot.Go to Legacybox.com/COMINGINHOT to save 60%. Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Reigniting Your Career at 18 or 50: Tips to Gain Confidence and Stand Out from the Rest

In this episode, Caroline is joined by guests Rachel Zaslansky Sheer and Lori Zuker Briller, co-founders of The Grapevine Agency and authors of “Straight From the Grapevine: How to Crush Your Job Search.” They share how they built their staffing agency, including bold cold-calling and networking, and encourage women—especially those returning to work after kids—that transferable skills from volunteering and running a household count. They give practical job-search advice whether you are starting over in your career at 50 or just getting started. They stress relationships over resumes, professionalism in outreach and interviews, aligning LinkedIn and social media with your narrative, and dressing appropriately to boost confidence and match the role. So if you are ready to increase your chances of landing your dream job, listen now!🎵Music Credit Nikka Costa – “It’s Just Love” Find Lori and Rachelthegrapevineagency.cominstagram.com/GrapevineAgencytiktok.com/@TheGrapevineLAGet the book: https://links.being-caroline.com/amzn/books-straight-from-the-grapevine Follow Caroline:IG: https://www.instagram.com/shop.with.caroline/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shop.with.carolineFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/beingcarolineSearch Looks: https://www.shop-with-caroline.com/Shop Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/coming-in-hotPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Download the Whatnot app today and get free shipping on your first order. Just search Whatnot in the app store and start scoring amazing deals.GoodRanchers.com: American meat delivered. When you start your plan, you’ll get to pick a free meat that will be included in every order for life, AND you’ll get $25 off your first order using my exclusive code, COMINGINHOT. Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Unraveling Menopause: The Untold Truths with Dr. Mary Claire Haver

In this episode, Caroline chats with board-certified OB-GYN and bestselling author Dr. Mary Claire Haver about why menopause and perimenopause are often misunderstood and under-taught in medicine, and why “just getting older” is not an acceptable diagnosis. Dr. Haver shares how she shifted from university medicine into opening a menopause clinic after COVID, and explains that menopause is a whole-body event with estrogen receptors throughout the body, affecting sleep, mood, brain fog, palpitations, vertigo, skin, and more. She breaks down the stages of perimenopause and menopause, describing hormone “chaos” as eggs decline, and stresses prioritizing sleep, resistance training, protein, fiber, and reducing processed foods and sugar to fight inflammation and prevent frailty. They discuss careful, monitored use of GLP-1s, skepticism about unregulated peptides/NAD, Dr. Haver’s own hormone regimen, and where to find menopause care. If you or someone you know is in the age of menopause, pre, during and post, this episode is for you!🎵Music Credit Nikka Costa – “It’s Just Love” Find Dr. Mary Claire Havermaryclairewellness.comIG: instagram.com/drmaryclaireTikTok: tiktok.com/@drmaryclaireThe 'Pause Life: thepauselife.comFollow Caroline:Podcast: https://being-caroline.com/podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/shop.with.caroline/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shop.with.carolineFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/beingcarolineSearch Looks: https://www.shop-with-caroline.com/Shop Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/coming-in-hotPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors: Use code COMINGINHOT at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Shimmer Face Oil with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #ad Visit eatright.org/everytable to learn more and find a nutrition and dietetics professional.Get 15% off your order of $100 or more at HillHouseHome.com with code cominginhot.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Reality Behind RHOBH Star Amanda Frances

In this episode, Caroline sits down with The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star Amanda Frances and chats about money, manifestation, why women are taught to avoid talking about finances, and of course her time on RHOBH. They discuss shame, financial literacy, desire-driven motivation, and “inspired action” as a blend of mindset and practical steps. Amanda describes culture shock joining Housewives without knowing the “rules,” feeling emotionally unsafe amid conflict, and dealing with online trolling, and doing phone detoxes. She discusses what she would do if she were on the show again, talks about gratitude practices, shares her background leaving a cult and redefining faith, and previews her books Rich as F*ck and Godly as F*ck. Be sure to check out this episode to get inspired, laugh and learn the reality of this “housewife.”🎵 Music Credit Nikka Costa – “It’s Just Love”Find Amanda- amandafrances.com- IG: instagram.com/xoamandafrances- YouTube: www.youtube.com/@xoAmandaFrances - App: Amanda Frances Money QueenFollow Caroline:- IG: https://www.instagram.com/shop.with.caroline/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shop.with.caroline- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beingcaroline- Search Looks: https://www.shop-with-caroline.com/- Shop Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/coming-in-hotPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:GoodRanchers.com: American meat delivered. When you start your plan, you’ll get to pick a free meat that will be included in every order for life, AND you’ll get $25 off your first order using my exclusive code, COMINGINHOT.Text HOT to 64000 to get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus FREE shipping. Message and data rates may apply.Visit eatright.org/everytable to learn more and find a nutrition and dietetics professional.Wake up with clearer skin, smoother hair, and cooler sleep. Use code COMINGINHOT for an extra 30% off at blissy.com/COMINGINHOT.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Are You Subconsciously a Drama Addict? Trauma-Bonding Truths Revealed

Ever wonder why some people thrive on drama? In this episode, Caroline welcomes licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons, author of “Addicted to Drama” and host of “The Gently Used Human,” to talk about toxic mom groups, gossip, and why drama can feel addictive. Using examples like “drama bonding” in groups, he explains how stress can become a habit that brings connection and even chemical pain relief, and why calm can feel unsafe for some people. They discuss how hormones (including menopause) can increase dysregulation, how partners can respond without adding “logs to the fire,” and why social media fuels attention-hungry conflict and competitive victimhood. Dr. Lyons shares practical regulation tools like walking, shaking, reading at night instead of scrolling, pausing before replying, and “unsetting the table” to stop mental spirals, and he shares where to find his work, including Embody Lab and his upcoming “Hot Seat Therapy” show.🎵Music Credit Nikka Costa – “It’s Just Love” Find Dr Scott Lyons: - Website: drscottlyons.com- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drscottlyons - Platform: theembodylab.comFollow Caroline:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shop.with.caroline/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shop.with.caroline- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beingcaroline- Search Looks: https://www.shop-with-caroline.com/- Shop New Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/coming-in-hotPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Stop guessing about nutrition. Connect with a nutrition and dietetics professional for expert, personalized guidance that works for you. Visit eatright.org/everytable to learn more and find a nutrition and dietetics professional.Get 15% off your order of $100 or more at HillHouseHome.com with code cominginhot.Redefine your standard of health. Secure 20% off your order and begin your intentional wellness journey today at Piquelife.com/cominginhot. Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.