Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself

Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself

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We all deserve a life of joy and fulfillment, but for many of us that joy feels elusive. We've checked off all the boxes and done all the the things that the blueprint of life says should make us happy, and yet - no joy. Turns out, being happy isn't about following society's blueprint, but about creating our own blueprint for what we want out of our lives and taking action to make that happen. For us to embrace that opportunity, we first have to let go of other people prescriptions for our life...
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Episode List

Creating Authentic Belonging with the Passionista's project with Amy & Nancy Harrington

Jan 26th, 2025 2:00 PM

In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, I sit down with Amy and Nancy Harrington, the dynamic sister duo behind The Passionistas Project. We dive into their journey from careers in entertainment to creating a global movement centered on sisterhood, inclusion, and empowerment. Critical conversations in a time where inclusion is on the chopping block threatening so many of our safe spaces. The Harringtons share how their close-knit bond became the foundation for building an intentional community where women—especially those from marginalized backgrounds—can connect, grow, and feel heard. From their early days of celebrity interviews to launching a subscription box, a podcast, and a thriving online sisterhood, they’ve remained committed to amplifying the voices of women making an impact. Together, we explore topics like breaking generational cycles, finding authentic connections, and creating spaces where vulnerability and support are celebrated. Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply inspired by their incredible story and the movement they’re building.Join us and discover the power of sisterhood, and learn about the community that I dove into during the first week of the new administration, as I felt past traumas come to light, and desperately needed a place to go where I would feel safe. Let this podcast be a beacon to help you find us and the opportunities and space that the sisters have created. CONNECT WITH ME MORE AT:http://www.stopshoulding.mehttps://www.instagram.com/minessa.konecky/ 🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro. This is one of my favorite albums of all time.👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

The Hidden Power of Quitting Courageously with Goli Kalkhoran

Jan 23rd, 2025 2:00 PM

In this episode, I engage in a deep conversation with Goli Kalkaran about the hidden power of quitting courageously. We explore how societal conditioning shapes our views on quitting, the journey from shame to empowerment, and the importance of reframing quitting as an opportunity for growth. Together, we discuss the stories we tell ourselves, the difference between clean and dirty pain, and the necessity of getting comfortable with discomfort during transitions.We also delve into self-compassion and the challenges of knowing when to quit versus when to stay in a job. Goli shares her perspective on the importance of personal responsibility in the workplace, emphasizing the need for individuals to manage their own mindset and set boundaries. Challenging traditional notions of work as a family and the pressure to find a singular passion, Goli advocates instead for a more transactional view of employment.During the episode, she introduces her Quitter Club membership, a program designed to help individuals navigate their career paths and personal growth. We also touch on the roles of therapy and coaching, recognizing that different tools are necessary for different people and situations.CONNECT WITH ME MORE AT:http://www.stopshoulding.mehttps://www.instagram.com/minessa.konecky/ 🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro. This is one of my favorite albums of all time.👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

Mastering Your Inner Narrative with Karen Marinella-Hall

Jan 17th, 2025 12:00 AM

In this episode of Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself, I chat with leadership coach and executive communications expert Karen Marinella-Hall about overcoming self-sabotage and stepping into your full potential.We explore the Positive Intelligence framework and how recognizing your internal “saboteurs” (like the Avoider or Stickler) can help you move past self-doubt and procrastination. Karen shares her personal journey, including how a life-changing trip to Antarctica inspired her to reinvent herself and embrace courageous change.We also discuss the power of self-awareness, the importance of aligning your values with your goals, and how small, intentional steps can lead to lasting transformation. Whether you’re navigating a career shift or just seeking clarity, this episode is packed with actionable insights.Take the free saboteur assessment linked in the show notes and start your journey to greater self-awareness today! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share! 🎙️ CONNECT WITH ME MORE AT:http://www.stopshoulding.mehttps://www.instagram.com/minessa.konecky/ 🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro. This is one of my favorite albums of all time.👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

Julie Delucca-Collins on Building Confidence Through Personal and Authentic Storytelling

Jan 9th, 2025 2:00 PM

In this episode, Minessa Konecky engages in a profound conversation with Julie DeLuca Collins about the complexities of multiracial identity, resilience in the face of adversity, and the journey of self-discovery. They explore the challenges of growing up in conflict zones, navigating immigration, and the importance of education and storytelling in shaping one's identity. Julie shares her experiences of finding peace amidst violence and the impact of her upbringing on her confidence and self-perception. The discussion emphasizes the significance of embracing authenticity, rejecting external labels, and the cyclical nature of personal growth. Julie also highlights her coaching approach, focusing on building confidence and helping individuals recognize their worth and potential.CONNECT WITH ME MORE AT:http://www.stopshoulding.mehttps://www.instagram.com/minessa.konecky/ 🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro. This is one of my favorite albums of all time.👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

The Articulate Autistic: Navigating Neurodivergent Misunderstandings

Jan 3rd, 2025 12:00 AM

In this episode of Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself, I had the absolute pleasure of chatting with Jaime Heidel(she/her), author of What Did I Do Wrong?. Her groundbreaking book is a must-read for anyone looking to better understand and connect with the neurodivergent people in their lives.Jaime shared powerful insights on communication, unmasking, and the unique strengths neurodivergent individuals bring to relationships, workplaces, and beyond. Whether you're neurodivergent yourself or have loved ones who are, this conversation will leave you with practical tools and a deeper sense of empathy.💬 Want to take it further? Jaime offers private consultations to help translate neurodivergent and neurotypical communication, making her a vital resource for families, educators, and employers alike.CONNECT WITH ME MORE AT:http://www.stopshoulding.mehttps://www.instagram.com/minessa.konecky/ 🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro. This is one of my favorite albums of all time.👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

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