When Words Cut Deep: How Dr. Natalie Phillips Found Healing and Empowerment | EP104
Today I have Dr. Natalie Phillips joining us. I first saw Natalie speak at the Secret Knock Women’s event, and her story moved me to my core. Today, she opens up about a painful experience of betrayal that deeply challenged her. She describes how she endured a “stabbing” — not from a knife, but from hurtful words that left her questioning her self-worth and friendships. However, her resilience and inner work transformed that pain into power, leading her to find strength in vulnerability and a renewed belief in the value of true connections.Natalie shares the incredible lessons she learned along the way, like the importance of aligning with your core values and the difference between surrounding yourself with great people versus the right people. Now, as a connection coach and speaker, she helps others embrace their unique gifts and encourages them to take action toward their purpose. Her journey reminds us that even the hardest moments can lead us to a greater understanding of ourselves and a stronger foundation for building meaningful relationships.About Dr. Natalie Phillips: Dr. Natalie Phillips is a wife, mom, speaker, author, philanthropist, business owner, and connector.She is passionate about building deep relationships and authentic connections to help make a difference in the world together. She is committed to assisting individuals and businesses to become more of who they are and to live out their brand. She believes in creating environments in which people can connect on different levels to help their businesses succeed. She created and is Founder and CEO of Connect4Excellence, LLC, a company dedicated to guide individuals, entrepreneurs, and businesses to connect to their own mission and culture, to connect to others at organized events, to connect to their own voice with a bigger audience on social media, and to connect to be able to give back and create social impact. As Co-Founder of ACT Now Consulting, LLC and Co-Author of ACT Now! A Simple Guide to Take Action on Your Greatest Goals and Dreams, she believes that many of us have great ideas and were created to bring something unique to the world. Dr. Phillips believes that no matter where you are in your journey, we all need accountability and environments to motivate and learn together so that we can all take ACTion!Dr. Phillips is owner of Audiology Center of Northern Colorado in Fort Collins, Colorado. In addition to seeing patients and diagnosing and treating hearing loss, tinnitus, and balance disorders of the ear, being involved in research and on clinical advisory boards, she has volunteered her time to travel overseas to India, Peru, Guyana, and Mexico as well as served in the United States as a Global Hearing Ambassador to deliver the gift of hearing by fitting hearing aids on people who are unable to afford the technology.CONNECT WITH SHANNAN KYM:Website: shannankym.com Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fulfillment-in-faith/id1653165886Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shannankymInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannankym/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SHANNANKYMBook: https://www.amazon.ca/How-Hell-Did-Get-Here/dp/0228871220Email: shannan@shannankym.comWhen you have faith in yourself you will have fulfilment in all areas of your life!See you next week and blessing to all!!!
Healing Together: The Power of Vulnerability in Love and Business with Diana & Jon Benitez | EP103
In this episode I’m thrilled to welcome fellow Canadians Diana and Jon Benitez, lovingly known as “Dijon.” Diana and Jon have an inspiring story of partnership in life and business, beginning with their venture into real estate investing in 2019. They share openly about the challenges they faced while building a business together, from navigating frequent conflicts to dealing with patterns of avoidance that impacted their connection. We dive deep into the realities of working with a spouse and how they realized that true growth in both their relationship and business required facing these issues head-on.Their journey of healing and personal growth has been transformative—not only for their relationship but also in how they parent and support each other’s growth. From therapy sessions that offered new perspectives to Jon’s experiences with self-discovery at retreats, Diana and Jon share powerful insights on vulnerability, trust, and communication. They offer advice for couples looking to grow together and emphasize the importance of doing the inner work as a team. We wrap up with their vision of helping other couples on similar paths and building a community where partners can thrive together. Whether you’re navigating challenges in business, relationships, or personal growth, this episode is packed with insights and encouragement.About Diana and Jon Benitez: Relationship Coaches and Transformational LeadersAfter 27 years together, Diana and Jon Benitez, affectionately known together as DIJON, embarked on an incredible journey of transformation that not only saved their relationship but also inspired them to help other couples navigate their own challenges. In 2019, seeking to build generational wealth for their family, they ventured into real estate investing together. Unfortunately, working together building homes only revealed deeper cracks in their relationship.For years, Diana and Jon had mastered the art of avoiding their issues, believing that time alone could make things better. But as they faced repeated struggles, they felt stuck and unhappy—desperate for change. Determined to save their marriage, they took a courageous step back to examine their individual pasts to understand how it shaped who they were. Through self-awareness, understanding and open communication, they began to prioritize their own needs while learning how to work together effectively. They discovered a renewed sense of joy, intimacy, and fulfillment in their relationship that they had thought was lost. Their transformation was profound and life-changing, and it didn’t take long for them to feel a calling to share their wisdom to help other couples.As relationship coaches, Diana and Jon, or DIJON, are dedicated to helping couples break free from unhealthy patterns, embrace vulnerability, and build stronger connections. They guide couples through their unique journeys toward deeper understanding and lasting happiness. Their mission is simple: to empower couples to overcome their challenges and rediscover the love and joy that brought them together in the first place. Diana and Jon Benitez are committed to making a positive impact on marriages everywhere built on a strong foundation of togetherness.https://linktr.ee/DiJonBenitezCONNECT WITH SHANNAN KYM:Website: shannankym.com Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fulfillment-in-faith/id1653165886Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shannankymInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannankym/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SHANNANKYMBook: https://www.amazon.ca/How-Hell-Did-Get-Here/dp/0228871220Email: shannan@shannankym.comWhen you have faith in yourself you will have fulfilment in all areas of your life!See you next week and blessing to all!!!
Finding Purpose Beyond the Uniform: Tomeka Jones' Transformation | EP102
I had the honor of speaking with Tomeka Jones, a woman whose story of resilience and transformation will inspire you. Tomeka shared her journey, from her humble beginnings in a small town in South Carolina to her 23-year career in the military, where she transitioned through various branches and roles before retiring as a nurse in 2022. One pivotal question, "Who are you?" sparked her path to self-discovery and healing, as she navigated the challenges of transitioning out of the structured military life. Her story highlights the importance of self-love and finding a deeper sense of purpose beyond the labels and roles life can impose.Tomeka’s journey of rediscovering her identity didn’t end with her military retirement—it was just the beginning. With the help of organizations like Grace After Fire, she confronted childhood trauma and embraced her true self. Now, through her apparel line that promotes messages like "flawless, resilience, confidence, self-love," Tomeka uses her voice to empower others. We discussed how sharing our stories not only heals us but helps others feel less alone in their struggles. This episode is a testament to the power of perseverance and the profound impact of answering the question, "Who are you?"About Tomeka Jones:I’m Tomeka Jones, a transformational life coach, the heart and soul behind Flawless Life Coaching. My journey to becoming a transformational life coach started with my own struggles—battles with self-worth, confidence, and resilience that shaped the woman I am today. I’ve walked through the fire, faced my fears, and emerged stronger on the other side. Now, I’m dedicated to helping women do the same.As a proud Air Force veteran, entrepreneur, and author, I’ve learned that true transformation begins from within. My mission is to empower women to embrace their flaws, step into their power, and live life with confidence and purpose. Through Flawless Life Coaching, I guide women on a journey of self-discovery, helping them to break free from limitations, shift their mindset, and create the abundant life they deserve.Beyond coaching, I’ve poured my passion into Flawless Fashion Co., where I blend empowerment with style, and Flawless Getaways, where I inspire women to explore the world and themselves. My goal is to help you elevate everyaspect of your life—mind, body, and soul—so you can live authentically and unapologetically. Together, we’ll turn your struggles into strengths and your dreams into reality.Instagram @flawlesslifecoachingFacebook:@flawlesslifecoaching @flawlessfasshioncoCONNECT WITH SHANNAN KYM:Website: shannankym.com Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fulfillment-in-faith/id1653165886Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shannankymInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannankym/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SHANNANKYMBook: https://www.amazon.ca/How-Hell-Did-Get-Here/dp/0228871220Email: shannan@shannankym.comWhen you have faith in yourself you will have fulfilment in all areas of your life!See you next week and blessing to all!!!
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse with Darla Ridilla | EP101
In this episode, I sat down with the incredible Darla Ridilla, a certified somatic trauma-informed coach who has journeyed through some of life’s toughest challenges. Darla opened up about her difficult childhood, growing up in a dysfunctional home with an abusive father and an emotionally unavailable mother. Her early experiences shaped her adulthood, leading her into emotionally unavailable relationships. Despite these hardships, Darla found the strength to break free and began a powerful journey of healing and self-awareness. We delved into the intricacies of narcissism, its ties to childhood experiences, and how Darla recognized these patterns in her own life.Darla’s story is a testament to resilience and transformation. From enduring toxic relationships to rebuilding her life with purpose, she shared invaluable insights on recognizing red flags, setting healthy boundaries, and cultivating self-love. Her advice to those struggling with abuse is simple yet profound: focus on small successes, be kind to yourself, and trust your instincts. Listening to Darla, it’s clear that the path to healing is possible, no matter how difficult the journey may seem. Her story is a powerful reminder to prioritize our well-being and to surround ourselves with positivity as we step into the life we truly deserve.About Darla Ridilla: Darla is a CPD & ICF certified somatic trauma informed coach with lived experience in narcissistic abuse. Her recovery journey from narcissistic relationships has inspired her to help other women with similar experiences. During one-on-one coaching sessions with female narcissistic abuse victims, she focuses on the nervous system to work through past trauma and take back personal power.https://www.highvaluewoman.info https://www.instagram.com/highvaluewoman7/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631 CONNECT WITH SHANNAN KYM:Website: shannankym.com Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fulfillment-in-faith/id1653165886Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shannankymInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannankym/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SHANNANKYMBook: https://www.amazon.ca/How-Hell-Did-Get-Here/dp/0228871220Email: shannan@shannankym.comWhen you have faith in yourself you will have fulfilment in all areas of your life!See you next week and blessing to all!!!
Courage to Evolve: Malorie Avaline on Faith, Freedom, and Redefining Identity | EP100
I had the pleasure of welcoming the incredibly brave and inspiring Malorie Avaline to the show. Malorie opens up about her ongoing journey of self-discovery and transformation, touching on the challenges of navigating a painful divorce and recently coming out as bisexual. From childhood trauma to struggles with substance abuse, Malorie’s story is one of deep resilience and the courage to embrace her true self, despite societal and familial expectations.As we continue our conversation, Malorie reflects on the turning points in her life that led to her sobriety and newfound freedom. Her journey toward self-love, which began with leaving an abusive marriage, blossomed as she learned to care for herself in simple yet profound ways. Now, with a focus on redefining her identity and stepping into her future, Malorie shares her dreams of writing a book and offering spiritual guidance to others. Her story serves as a reminder that we can all find the strength to reinvent ourselves and live authentically, no matter how challenging the path may seem.About Malorie Avaline:I'm a woman on a mission, and my mission is simple yet profound: I'm absolutely obsessed with human potential. I've dedicated years of my life to diving deep into the realms of consciousness and healing, honing my skills to become a true master of my craft. But here's the thing – I don't see you for the problems you might be facing; I see the boundless potential that resides within you. As a spiritual coach and teacher, transformational event host, and facilitator, my purpose is to guide you through the depths of your pain and the constraints of limiting thoughts. My ultimate destination for you? A space of complete and total liberation... True Fulfillment. Through my 1:1 & group coaching programs, live events and retreats, I create safe havens where you can let go, fall apart, and be nurtured to the highest possible standard of your personal development. If you're seeking to transform your life from the inside out, you've arrived at the perfect place. My specialization lies in helping people heal from trauma and discover the unfiltered truth of who they were meant to be in this world – free from the shackles of old thought patterns and limiting paradigms. So, whether you're looking for guidance in the boardroom, seeking transformation in the bedroom, or yearning for transcendence beyond the ordinary, I'm here to be your unwavering guide on this incredible journey. Together, we'll unlock your true potential, one quantum leap at a timeSocial Media Handles: https://www.malorieavaline.comhttps://www.instagram.com/malorieavaline/https://www.linkedin.com/in/malorie-avaline-09531794/CONNECT WITH SHANNAN KYM:Website: shannankym.com Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fulfillment-in-faith/id1653165886Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shannankymInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannankym/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SHANNANKYMBook: https://www.amazon.ca/How-Hell-Did-Get-Here/dp/0228871220Email: shannan@shannankym.comWhen you have faith in yourself you will have fulfilment in all areas of your life!See you next week and blessing to all!!!