Grace Based Families Podcast

Speaking Grace to Your Kids: An Interview with Shealyn Visser

Grace is essential for raising kids who thrive. But it can be hard to explain, especially to kids. On this episode of the Gracebased Podcast, Cody Kimmel speaks with Shealyn Visser about how to teach kids about God's grace in a way that makes sense to them. Shealyn is a teacher, children's ministry director, mom, and first time author of the book Loved No Matter What!Cody and Shealyn dig into how to connect with kids, use language they can understand, and ultimately launch kids towards a life filled with grace. You can learn more about Shealyn, as well as purchase her book, at shealynvisser.com.

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How to Deal with Toxic Shame

Grace Based Families Podcast Dec 06, 2023 Episode 113 Hosts: Michelle Broek, Karis Murray In this episode, we delve into the depths of toxic shame, a misunderstood and complex emotion. We explore its differences from guilt and embarrassment, drawing from Brene Brown's research, highlighting the connection between shame and detrimental behaviors such as addiction, violence, and depression. Focusing on the impact of shame on mental health, particularly those struggling with undiagnosed ADHD, we discuss how messages from significant individuals can fuel shame. We emphasize the importance of accepting one's identity and the role of professional counseling and medication in managing ADHD symptoms. The episode concludes with a call to embrace 'neurodivergence', view it as a gift, and create safe spaces for it. We discuss the power of parental love in disengaging from shame and how modeling vulnerability can help children grow into emotionally intelligent adults. Send your question, comment and prayer requests to: family@gracebasedfamilies.com Make a donation at the Grace Based Families website

Racial Unity and the Church

Grace Based Families Podcast Nov 22, 2023 Episode 112 Host: Karis Murray Guest: Sam Melvin, Executive Director of Church and Race Karis and Sam explore the deeply rooted issue of racism within the church. Sam shares his personal experiences as a black man attending a predominantly white church, and how his faith has guided him through these challenges. Our conversation delves into the interpretation of racism in the Bible, systemic racism ingrained in the U.S., and the role of the church during the Civil Rights Movement. In the latter part of the episode, Sam provides valuable insights on the importance of repentance, forgiveness, and open dialogue in the pursuit of racial unity and reconciliation. Through his powerful analogy of racial unity to a marriage, Sam underscores the need for mutual respect, submission, and understanding. We also reflect on the critical work done by the Church and Race ministry, emphasizing the importance of sticking to their mission to achieve racial unity. This episode serves as an eye-opening journey towards racial reconciliation in the church, and we invite you to join us in this essential conversation. The Church and Race website coming soon Send your question, comment and prayer requests to: family@gracebasedfamilies.com Make a donation at the Grace Based Families website

Ask Tim #3 Chores, Media, and My Spouse Has Changed!

Grace Based Families Podcast Nov 8, 2023 Episode 111 Host: Michelle Broek Guest: Dr. Tim Kimmel Q1. How can people navigate the changes and differences that inevitably occur in marriages? Michelle asks Tim to provide insights into the common challenges couples face as they evolve over time. The discussion touches on how changes can sometimes lead to disconnect, and the host asks for practical strategies to help couples manage these differences, maintain a strong bond, and promote healing and growth in the relationship. Q2. How can parents encourage their children to take on more responsibility around the home? In this question, Michelle explores the issue of instilling responsibility in children, particularly in relation to chores. The discussion seeks to understand the best approaches for motivating children to participate in household tasks and contribute to the family unit. Q3. How can parents effectively guide their children in a world heavily influenced by digital media and potentially harmful content? Michelle raises the concern about children's exposure to potentially harmful content on digital platforms and asks Tim for advice on how to manage this. The question aims to gather strategies for parents to help their children navigate the digital world responsibly and safely. Send your question, comment and prayer requests to: family@gracebasedfamilies.com Make a donation at the Grace Based Families website