Episode 001 - The Time We Didn't Ask
Words mean something. Words can be fantastic, informative and provide clarity. Problem is…what happens when we forget to use our words? In any situation, disaster can follow and none more so than in the lifestyle.
Communication is key. Honest, forthright direction is vital in lifestyle relationships. Honesty with yourself, with your significant other, and with others fosters a healthy and rewarding experience. Don’t screw it up by assuming. Because we all know what ass-u-me-ing does.
In this episode, Julie and Johnny talk about the time one situation went mildly bad until everyone had a heart-to-heart.
SHOW NOTES
- 02:37 – Johnny’s con-"cock"-tion: Orgasm; Remember how to make it with the acronym BACK – Baileys, Amaretto, Cream, and Kahlua.
- 06:15 – What have Julie and Johnny been up to? Not much. Vanilla life has slowed us down a bit, but we did have one “so-so” experience.
- 12:50 – We will be in Desire Pearl in February 2023. Cum see us.
- 14:00 – Life is ambiguous and does not come with a manual. The lifestyle is viewed by many as a “taboo” topic. What are the rules and guidelines.
- 15:58 – Many “rules” end up being broken because they become flexible in the moment. Most rules are not actual rules. They are guidelines, limits, or boundaries.
- 19:20 – Finger pointing does not work. Stop trying to find fault. Your partner is not trying to hurt you and scenarios that "pop up" are dynamic.
- 23:00 – Meatball Marriage Therapy: a couple that didn’t talk to each other, then a great night turned into a bad day.
- 32:00 – Sometimes things are way worse in your head than they are in reality.
- 35:30 – The lifestyle has opened conversations requiring a completely opened mind with each other.
- 39:35 – 10 Minutes to Quit.
- 40:45 – Julie’s experience: using toys.
- 43:55 – Johnny’s experience: being naked in public.
SHOW LINKS
- Lake Cumberland Poker Run - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MAmm0SVm5hU
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