In today's episode, we dive into a listener's question about a lack of desire in her marriage. After working through the Our Intimate Choices worksheet, the husband shared he has no desire or attraction towards his wife.
What does she do now?
It's important she faces the truth of the system and begins recognizing the underlying dynamics. In this process it is imperative she recognizes the importance of separating self-worth from a spouse's opinion and works to make choices that align with her personal values.
Takeaways
Facing the truth and recognizing the underlying issues in a marriage is essential for personal growth and relationship development.
Separating self-worth from a spouse's opinion is crucial for maintaining a healthy sense of self.
Choosing to stay in a marriage while not feeling stuck requires personal growth and self-reflection.
Marriage is a people-growing machine that demands constant self-confrontation and growth.
On the Xtended Version ...
Questions from a recent Q&A session regarding what do you do when attraction has disappeared or never really existed in the first place?
There is a natural ebb and flow of attraction and desire in marriage, but facing this dynamic requires a great deal of self work.
Enjoy the show!
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