In this episode, in recognition of this being episode 666, we go a bit dark and discuss the concept of normal marital sadism (a term coined by Dr David Schnarch), which refers to the intentional infliction of pain, cruelty, and hurt within a marriage.
We explore various examples of normal marital sadism, such as poking fun at and embarrassing a spouse, lying to inflict pain, restricting the autonomy of your spouse, and manipulating them to establish compliance or gain dominance.
Our conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing our own capacity for cruelty and the need to address it in order to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage.
Takeaways
Normal marital sadism refers to the intentional infliction of pain, cruelty, and hurt within a marriage.
Examples of normal marital sadism include humiliating and demeaning others, lying to inflict pain, restricting the autonomy of others, and manipulating others to establish compliance or gain dominance.
It is important to recognize our own capacity for cruelty and address it in order to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage.
Denying the existence of normal marital sadism can lead to its prevalence and negative consequences in a relationship.
On the Xtended Version ...
What do we do about normal marital sadism? How do I address it? Get rid of it? Or, at the very least limit it's presence in my marriage?
Enjoy the show!
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