You already know working in tech while staying in a romantic relationship is hard if you spend a lot of time on the computer. But there are other even more dangerous aspects of a tech job that can risk losing your romantic partner if you aren't careful.
In this episode, I share lessons I've learned while married for 25 years to the same woman - and working in tech at the same time. It wasn't easy and I almost lost her a few times. But eventually I learned how to both be a successful programmer - and stay married. I hope this episode helps you avoid divorce or breakup if you're trying to balance a healthy relationship with a romantic partner with progression in your tech career.
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Chapter markers / timelinks:
(2:15) 1. 5 Ways Tech Sabotages Relationships
(2:45) 1.1 Long and Unpredictable Work Hours
(6:14) 1.2 Communication Breakdown
(7:58) 1.3 Financial Stress and Lifestyle Inflation
(11:01) 1.4 Lack of Shared Interests & Experiences
(14:55) 2. 3 Ways to Keep a Relationship Healthy Working in Tech
(14:13) 2.1 Schedule & Prioritize Quality Time
(17:56) 2.2 Open Communication of Stress & Expectations
(22:35) 2.3 Establish Boundaries With Work and Home Life
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