Most high achievers aren't limited by a lack of talent or lack of opportunity. They're limited by the tension they carry inside their own nervous systems. This low-grade tension drains your energy and leads to burn out, it flattens your relationships and leads to heartbreak, it blurs your decision-making and leads to humiliation. So, where does this tension even come from? Your conscience. Each time you betray your values, your nervous system takes note and interprets it as internal chaos, which unleashes a sl...
Most high achievers aren't limited by a lack of talent or lack of opportunity. They're limited by the tension they carry inside their own nervous systems.
This low-grade tension drains your energy and leads to burn out, it flattens your relationships and leads to heartbreak, it blurs your decision-making and leads to humiliation.
So, where does this tension even come from?
Your conscience.
Each time you betray your values, your nervous system takes note and interprets it as internal chaos, which unleashes a slew of biological disadvantages: Cortisol ramps up, sleep gets disrupted, your energy gets drained, and you lose access to creativity, courage, and focus.
But all of these weaknesses start turning into strengths when your behavior aligns with your values. Your body relaxes, the internal friction in your nervous system dissolves, your energy returns, and you tap back into your deepest source of creativity, courage, and focus.
That's why moral goodness is a performance-enhancing drug. It allows you to access the full power of your naturally evolved potential. It gives you an upgrade that a lack of achievement or material success can't, by definition, take away from you.
That's what we're discussing in today's episode.
You'll discover the real cost betraying your conscience has on your nervous system, why moral goodness is a biological advantage, and why aligning your behaviors to your values is the only path to deep, lasting peace.
Listen now.
Show Highlights Include:
- Why asking yourself this question forces you to slow down long enough to interact with your nervous system instead of being a puppet to it (0:28)
- The cold, hard truth about why hitting another milestone can't grow your inner security (1:03)
- 3 traits you must embody in your behavior if you want your nervous system to relax (3:56)
- The physiological explanation behind karma (and how to use this new understanding to eliminate low-grade tension your body holds) (5:29)
- How cultivating goodness gives you the most practical performance advantage (12:37)
- The real world leadership skills that come as a natural extension of compassion (13:14)
- Why moral goodness is a "biological upgrade" that can't be taken away from you (13:43)
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