Dates, Mates and Babies with the Vallottons
Society & Culture:Relationships
The Vallottons have delved into the intricate dynamics of relationships, pondering the reasons behind the fading spark and the drifting apart of once inseparable couples. They peel back the curtain on common relationship woes, attributing them to the subtle erosion of connection and communication. In a heartfelt discussion that is both intimate and informative, the Vallottons not only share their personal journey but also impart insights gained from the trenches of love and war.
Central to their conversation is the concept of the 'Four Horsemen,' a term coined by the Gottman Institute, and for good reason. The Vallottons emphasize that behaviors like criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling can sabotage even the strongest bonds if left unchecked. Their exploration goes beyond identification, tackling these relationship adversaries head-on by providing relatable scenarios and actionable advice. The focus is on taking ownership of communication patterns and transforming them into supportive, nurturing exchanges that strengthen relationships against inevitable storms.
The Vallottons then hone in on the silent but deadly practice of stonewalling and its corrosive effects on partnerships. They guide listeners through the fine line between needing space and building walls, offering strategies for breaking negative cycles and creating a blueprint for conflict resolution. The goal is to empower listeners to turn squabbles into opportunities for growth. Whether navigating the complexities of marriage or seeking to deepen connections, this episode serves as an invaluable resource for fostering healthier, more resilient relationships.
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72. Q&A
71. Five Keys to Help Moms Win!
70. The Emotional Bank Account of Your Relationship
69. Fostering Adult Friendships
68. Q&A About the Recent Sex Series
67. Sex Series, Week 6: Women's Health & Sex with Rebekah LaRobardiere
66. Sex Series Week 5: Sexual Issues & Dysfunctions with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill
65. Sex Series Week 4: Sex in Marriage, Part 2 (Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill)
64. Sex Series Week 3: Sex in Marriage, Part 1 (Aaron & Jenna Zint)
63. Sex Series Week 2: Sex BEFORE Marriage
62. Sex Series Week 1: God's Design for Human Sexuality with Cole and Caitlin Zick
61. Jason and Lauren on Parenting, Lately
60. Q&A (Including dating issues to press through, dating with faith differences, friendship with kids, marriage separations, blindspots, etc.)
59. Should I Stay or Should I Go: 10 Reasons to End a Dating Relationship
58. What is Love?!
57. The Pre-Dating Game
56. Q&A (How to get over a heartbreak, when to get engaged, when to date after divorce, when to have a baby, and more!)
54. Seth Dahl on Cultivating a Thriving Family Through Spirit-Led Parenting
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