Lightbulb Moments in Marriage: Finding Clarity, Faith, and Connection with Dr. Emerson Eggerichs (01-25-26)

Guest Segment 1: On this episode of iHeartradio’s West Michigan Weekend, host Phil Tower welcomes Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, New York Times bestselling author of the landmark relationship book Love & Respect, to discuss his just-released new book, Lightbulb Moments in Marriage: 12 Biblical Perspectives for Successful and Satisfied Couples (Thomas Nelson).

Dr. Eggerichs introduces the idea that lasting change in marriage rarely comes from dramatic breakthroughs, but from small, biblically grounded “lightbulb moments”—powerful realizations that quietly reshape how couples think, respond, and love. Many of these insights come directly from real-life stories shared with him by couples who experienced sudden clarity in the middle of everyday conflict, disappointment, or misunderstanding.
In our conversation, we explore how couples can learn to recognize these lightbulb moments, why rooting your identity in Christ—rather than a spouse’s approval or mood—is foundational to a healthy marriage, and how cultural myths like “happy wife, happy life” often undermine true intimacy.
We also dive into communication—not just talking more, but truly hearing one another—along with the importance of self-awareness, emotional responsibility.
In his terrific new book, he also helps us understand the powerful principle of “My response is my responsibility.” Whether you’re newly married, decades in, or simply seeking a more biblical and realistic vision for marriage, this episode offers insight, encouragement, and practical hope.

Get the new book: Love & Respect | Lightbulb Moments in Marriage: 12 Biblical Perspectives for Successful and Satisfied Couples

Available now for pre-order through Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and major booksellers.

More Resources:
•  Book website
•  Emerson Eggerichs
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