Dan talks about a concept he uses in his practice, which was coined by Terry Real as "Bad Deals". This is when a couple gets into a pattern or unspoken agreement that really doesn't work for either of them, but they just keep continuing their side of the "bargain" because they are just stuck and aren't aware of another way of operating.
Dan also shares how he works with couples who are in this situation to break out of these cycles and come up with better ways of operating.
If you would like to work with Dan, you can find more info and bookings at danielanear.com
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