Hi and welcome to The Couples Expert with your host Stuart Fensterheim. This is episode 186 of our show. Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Hanukkah, Merry Christmas, Happy Kwanzaa! Stuart wishes everyone very happy holidays. This year Stuart wants you and your partner to have a holiday season filled with love, togetherness and connection.
Today is a really special episode, because today Stuart is taking everyone on a magical journey today. A special journey of attachment, and acceptance, one of vulnerability and love. Visit a strange land where you will be meeting people as the most authentic version of yourself.
What you’ll learn from today’s podcast:
Wearing masks [3:45] Recognizing when you are not being your best [5:00] Acknowledge your partner’s experience [9:00] Open the door to Attachmentland [11:00] Stop thinking you have to live up to an expectation [14:00] Being authentic [16:50] Dig deep and ask yourself questions [17:30] Stop surviving, and start living [20:00] That place where you are never alone [21:00] Qualities of authentic people [26:15]There is a relaxation that occurs when you are authentic. What are the qualities of authentic people?
Are you self-reflective? Are you accepting of yourself and other people? Are you able to express your emotions freely and clearly? Do you make commitments that you live up to? Do you forgive easily? There is a sense of love and giving. We treat people with kindness and respect.Be yourself everyone else is already taken. - Oscar Wilde
We want to be that person in our partner’s life that they see as their best ally, their best confidant, that wouldn’t hurt a fly. Until next time, Stay Connected
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Next time on The Couples Expert Podcast:
Join us next time as Stuart discusses New Year’s resolutions and whether or not you are a good partner.
Is Social Media Destroying my Marriage? (Encore)
198 - Laugh Before You Cry: Divorce Proof Your Marriage - Encore
How to Appreciate the Women in Your Life on Mother's Day - Encore
196 - When you Remarry Where do you Unpack the Baggage? With Guest Brian Mayer.
Broke and Broken - The pain of financial infidelity - Encore
193-Staying Together when Work Keeps You Away - Encore
193 - Living and Loving in Middle Age - Life After 50 - Encore
192 - Wheres the fire I feel like your my roommate - Encore
191-Are You a Good Partner?
The Reason We All Cheat - Stuart Tells All - Encore
Banish Boredom in the Bedroom
188 - Emotional Intimacy - Bringing Sex Out of the Boardroom
Setting Meaningful Relationship Goals for the New Year
185-RESPECT MY BOUNDARIES
184-The Importance of the Father and Son Relationship
183- Sexual Communication - Inside and Outside of the Bedroom
182-RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FOR THE NEWLYWEDS
181-Where Did Our Sex Life Go
180 - Am I Lovable Enough?
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