Unfeigned Christianity

What’s Really Happening in Minneapolis? A Firsthand Conversation

It’s easy to react to headlines. It’s harder to listen. In this episode, I talk with my cousin Sonya, who lives and works in Minneapolis, about the recent ICE activity and what it looks like from someone actually there. We discuss immigration enforcement, fear within immigrant communities, how local churches are responding, and how Christians can navigate these conversations without living in an echo chamber. This isn’t about outrage. It’s about proximity. If we want to love others well, we have to understand their lived experience. Also, if you would like to help provide rent support for people affected by the activity, you can do so through this GoFundMe campaign. Grace and peace. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Context of Minneapolis Events04:49 Sonya's Journey to Minneapolis and Counseling Career07:48 Life in Minneapolis: Community and Environment10:43 Involvement with Immigrant Families and Community Support13:39 Understanding ICE Activities and Community Impact16:36 Personal Stories and Experiences with Detention19:45 Legal and Ethical Concerns Surrounding ICE Operations22:32 Fear and Anxiety Among Immigrant Families34:06 Understanding the Hostility of Immigration35:41 Demographics of Immigrants in Minnesota37:29 Fraud Cases and ICE Presence in Minneapolis42:05 Protests and Community Response to ICE45:58 Christian Community's Involvement and Support50:37 Misconceptions About Immigrants52:32 The Human Rights Crisis and Community Support57:17 Ways to Help Immigrants in Minneapolis

7 Dangerous Teachings Shaping the Church Today

Some teachings sound biblical. They use Scripture. They feel familiar. They often come from trusted voices. But when you look closely… they aren’t rooted in Jesus as revealed through the Scriptures. In this episode, I walk through seven dangerous teachings quietly shaping the church right now—from Christian nationalism and Zionism to the Jezebel spirit, same-sex marriage, head coverings, racial myths, and how we address habitual sin. (You can read the article version here.) This is not about policing pastors. It’s not about hunting heresy. It’s about becoming theologically anchored. Because anything that distracts us from becoming like Jesus— even if it sounds spiritual— is dangerous. Grace and peace. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Unfeigned Christianity02:19 The Importance of Theological Anchoring09:45 Seven Dangerous Teachings in the Church10:33 The United States as a Christian Nation22:02 The Head Covering and Submission29:12 Accountability to Christ29:15 The Curse of Ham Myth34:40 Consequences of the Curse of Ham Myth36:45 The Jezebel Spirit48:00 Understanding Rebellion and Authority

Why I Almost Quit—and Why I’m Beginning Again

I almost quit. After a long season of health challenges, burnout, and disillusionment, I came close to walking away from writing, podcasting, and this work altogether. In this episode, I share what brought me to that edge—and what pulled me back. This episode marks a reset for Unfeigned Christianity as we begin 2026. We talk about why the church desperately needs to be theologically anchored, why emotional health is essential for discipleship, and how we are often being formed more by media and politics than by the way of Jesus. This isn’t a polished manifesto. It’s an honest conversation. If you’re longing for a faith that is grounded, emotionally healthy, and capable of loving others well—this journey is for you. *You can read the written version of this episode here.  Chapters 00:00 Welcome Back and Personal Updates01:18 Introducing Zara Aurielle02:47 Reflecting on the Past Year04:40 Upcoming Interviews and Themes09:06 The Importance of Theological Anchoring17:54 The Need for Emotional Health27:10 Loving and Discipling Others Well If you’re tired of shallow faith, reactive Christianity, or pretending everything is fine—this space is for you. Join the email list Become a member  Subscribe for upcoming interviews and teaching Grace and peace.

You Weren’t Meant to Heal Alone: The Live Free Mentorship Journey

After Rewiring Desire, one question remains: Can I really change—and can I do it alone? In this episode, Asher shares an important announcement: enrollment is now open for the Live Free Mentorship Community—a 5-month guided journey toward sexual and spiritual wholeness. This isn’t another accountability group. It’s a safe, grace-filled space to process your story, rewire old patterns, and experience the connection your heart was made for. You’ll learn: Why isolation keeps you stuck What makes Live Free different What’s included inside the mentorship A special Black Friday offer for early members You don’t need to be perfect to begin—just willing. Join the community: https://www.asherwitmer.com/the-live-free-mentorship-community/ 

From Escape to Connection: How to Heal Porn Patterns (Biblical + Practical)

Freedom isn’t about a flawless record. It’s about connection in the moment of pain. In Part 3, we get practical: unblending from Exile/Manager/Firefighter, using simple daily practices to calm your nervous system, and building secure attachment with God and safe people. Learn why willpower fails, how neuroplasticity helps, and how to turn relapse into relationship—so your automatic response becomes “I’m hurting → I connect.” Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Healing and Rewiring Desire00:48 Understanding Internal Parts and Their Roles02:20 Identifying the Root Causes of Pain03:37 Neuroscience of Healing and Rewiring the Brain05:18 Setbacks and the Journey to Wholeness06:10 Community and Support in the Healing Process Resources & updates: Join the email list for the next Live Free Mentorship Community cohort: asherwitmer.com/subscribe The “F” Word