Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman

Grief as Sacred Medicine with Bobbi Vogel

What if grief is not something to get over, but something meant to open us? What if the pain you are carrying is not a sign of weakness, but a doorway into deeper love, truth, and healing? In this powerful episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I am joined by Bobbi Vogel, a psychic medium, clairvoyant healer, and soul guide, for a sacred conversation about grief, loss, and the unseen support surrounding us. We explore grief not as a problem to fix, but as medicine. An initiation that cracks us open so we can return to who we truly are. Bobbi shares what Spirit has been communicating about this moment in time, why so many souls are crossing over, how our loved ones continue to guide us, and why allowing grief, rather than bypassing it, is essential for both personal and collective healing. This episode includes live readings and deeply moving moments with grieving parents and loved ones, offering real-time insight into how connection continues beyond the physical body. Bobbi speaks candidly about spiritual bypassing, soul agreements, and why our loved ones on the other side are not who they were in human form, but wiser, expanded guides devoted to our healing. We explore:  Why grief is sacred medicine and how it opens us to healing The danger of spiritual bypassing and turning pain into purpose too soon How our loved ones continue to support us from the other side What souls do after they leave the body and how roles reverse Collective grief and why personal healing serves the whole How to ask your loved ones for help and guidance Twin souls, soul agreements, and unfinished business Why grief brings us back to earlier wounds and how to heal them If you are grieving the loss of a child, partner, parent, or loved one, or if you are carrying grief that goes beyond death, this conversation offers validation, compassion, and a reminder that you are not alone. Remember, for private sessions with Bobbi Vogel, you can visit bobbivogel.com or find her on Instagram @bobbi.vogel. You can also explore my website for supportive resources, including the Good Grief course. And if this conversation stirred something in you, I’d truly love to hear about it. You’re always welcome to email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When You’re Lonely in a “Good” Relationship

What happens when your partner is kind, loyal, and on paper seems like everything you should want, yet deep down, you feel unseen? In this Language of Love session, I connect with Elena, a listener who reached out because she feels exhausted in her relationship. She is the one holding everything together, remembering birthdays, checking in emotionally, making plans, and keeping the balance steady. She does not want to villainize her partner, but she is tired of feeling loved for what she does instead of who she is. In this session, I help Elena unpack why this dynamic is so common in long-term relationships and how it often is not about a lack of love, but a disconnect in how love is expressed and received. We explore how love languages shape our expectations, why resentment can quietly build over time, and how to ask for emotional support without turning the conversation into an argument about chores or who does more. In this session, I dive into: Why feeling unseen can slowly erode intimacy Why this dynamic often emerges over time, especially after major life changes like having children. How love languages influence what makes us feel cherished Why loving your partner the way you want to be loved can miss the mark How to clearly articulate your needs and desires Practical ways to ask for support, romance, and appreciation in ways that actually land When it might be time to consider short-term couples therapy to reset your relationship's trajectory positively. If Elena’s story resonates, if you feel like the emotional anchor in your relationship or long to feel more deeply known, I want to hear from you. Your story could help someone else feel less alone. You can email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com to share your question for a future episode. For additional support, I encourage you to explore other helpful resources, including The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman, which offers insight into how we give and receive love differently. You can also visit my website, where you will find expert-approved resources and my free Quantum Sex course designed to help you deepen connection with your body, your partner, and your pleasure. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What Women really Need to Feel Turned On

Do you know the brain is a woman’s main sexual organ? So how do you unlock her mind before you try to turn on her body? Because even when everything seems “right,” she still might not be in the mood.  In this Language of Love Bite, we’re talking about why emotional and psychological safety are the real gateways to female arousal. Because if a woman doesn’t feel seen, connected, and at ease, her body simply won’t follow no matter how much effort you put in physically. I break down how women experience desire differently than men, why stress and emotional disconnection shut down arousal, and how engaging her mind first can completely transform your sexual experience and sex life together. You’ll also hear the exact kind of compliments that actually build intimacy (hint: it’s not just about her looks), simple ways to check in before initiating touch, and how to create anticipation long before you’re in the bedroom. And yes, I share one powerful sentence you can say right before intimacy that helps a woman relax, trust, and truly open to pleasure. This isn’t about techniques or performance. It’s about presence, attunement, and making her feel safe enough to let go. We explore: Why women are turned on mentally before they’re turned on physically The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire How emotional safety unlocks deeper arousal What compliments actually turn women on and why surface praise often misses the mark How to use “mental foreplay” to help her unwind instead of perform Subtle texts and energetic cues that build desire throughout the day One simple line that communicates trust, care, and connection before sex If you’re ready to deepen intimacy and experience sex as truly connected and expansive, explore my free Quantum Sex course. It’s designed to help you elevate pleasure and create deeper emotional connection. For a deeper dive, my book Sex Magic invites you to reimagine desire, intimacy, and self-worth, transforming sex into something conscious, sacred, and deeply nourishing. Sex should feel like coming home to yourself. You can also take the free quiz on my website to uncover what may be blocking intimacy and explore 7 Days to Better Sex to start actively creating the passion and connection you desire. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Living as an Empath in an Overwhelming World with Dr. Judith Orloff

Do you leave social gatherings feeling utterly drained, as if you've absorbed everyone else's stress, sadness, or tension? Do you find yourself constantly over-helping or trying to "fix" others, only to end up exhausted? Or do everyday stimuli like bright lights, loud noises, or scratchy fabrics overwhelm you in ways others simply don't understand? If these resonate, you may be navigating life as a highly sensitive person, an empath, or both. In this episode of The Language of Love Conversations, I sit down with Dr. Judith Orloff, a UCLA-trained psychiatrist, empath, and New York Times bestselling author. Known as the "godmother of the empath movement," she beautifully bridges science, intuition, and energy medicine. Her acclaimed books include The Empath’s Survival Guide, The Genius of Empathy, Emotional Freedom, and her new children’s book, The Highly Sensitive Rabbit. We explore what it truly means to be an empath (and how it differs from being highly sensitive), why empaths are frequently misdiagnosed with sensory processing disorder, and why this growing wave of sensitive souls is precisely what our world needs right now. Dr. Orloff shares her personal journey growing up in a medical family that dismissed her intuitive gifts and how she learned to honor them instead of suppressing them. This empowering conversation covers practical tools to protect your energy, set heart-centered boundaries, and thrive without closing your heart. We discuss raising empathic children in an overwhelming world, the connection between unacknowledged sensitivity and issues like addiction or autoimmune conditions, and simple daily practices like breathwork, earthing, grounding, visualization, and energetic cord-cutting (when you're truly ready). We dive deep into: The true meaning of being an empath vs. a highly sensitive person Different types of empaths and their unique experiences Why empaths are often misdiagnosed (with anxiety, depression, sensory processing issues, or physical illness) The profound gifts of empathy How emotional and physical energies get absorbed and how to release them Essential boundaries, grounding, and shielding techniques The power (and caution) of energetic cord-cutting Why there are more empaths today than ever before, including links to trauma and the rise of "adult-onset" empaths Raising empathic and highly sensitive children and why they need space to thrive How empathic children may soon lead the world Spotting empathic traits in kids (even though all children have some empathy) Coping with overwhelm through addictions vs. healthier self-care paths Empaths in relationships: avoiding love-bombing, narcissists, and learning to voice your needs Five essential daily practices to stay grounded as an empath If you’re feeling drawn to Judith’s work, explore her classic The Empath’s Survival Guide: Life Strategies for Sensitive People (with its invaluable self-assessment quiz) and her empowering new children’s book The Highly Sensitive Rabbit, a tender story to help young sensitive hearts feel seen and strong. Connect with Dr. Judith Orloff at drjudithorloff.com for blogs, workshops, her empath support newsletter, and more resources on intuition and energy healing. Looking for more insight? Check out these powerful reads: The Genius of Empathy by Judith Orloff and Quantum Love. And if you’re craving even more guidance, be sure to visit my website, where you’ll find free resources tailored to support your unique journey. Are You an Empath? Take Dr. Judith Orloff’s 20-Question Self-Assessment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When You’re Not Fighting, But You’re Drifting Apart

Sometimes relationships don’t fall apart, they just grow quiet. You’re still together, still functioning, still sharing a life, but something feels off. The conversations are. The connection feels thinner. And even though nothing is “wrong,” you miss the closeness you used to feel. In this Language of Love Session, I answer a question from a listener who feels disconnected from her partner. They don’t fight, but they don’t really talk anymore either. Conversations feel polite and surface-level, and when she tries to go deeper, he shuts down or changes the subject. I talk about why this kind of emotional distance is so common, especially in long-term relationships, and why trying harder to have the big conversation can sometimes create more distance instead of closeness. I also share what I’ve learned, both professionally and from raising boys, about how many men experience closeness, conversation, and emotional safety differently than women do. In this session, I share: Why emotional distance can happen even when there’s no conflict How technology and distraction quietly interfere with connection Why face-to-face deep talks can feel overwhelming for some partners How side-by-side connection can open the door to better conversations The role play, lightness, and silliness can play in rebuilding closeness Why sex can sometimes lead to emotional intimacy, not the other way around How to rebuild connection before tackling the bigger relationship questions This session is a reminder that connection often returns when there’s less pressure and more room to just be together again. Don’t forget to visit my website and explore the resources there. They’re all designed to help you create deeper, more fulfilling love in your life. You can also take the free quiz, “What Do You Really Want in Love?” It’s a great way to get clear on what your heart’s truly looking for. And if you have a question or want to be part of a future Language of Love session, just email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices