A Nervous System Approach to Goal Setting
Most goal-setting advice completely ignores your nervous system - and that's why most goals fail. When you understand how your nervous system responds to different types of goals, you can set yourself up for sustainable success instead of constant struggle. This episode reveals why traditional goal-setting often backfires and offers a completely different approach that works with your body instead of against it.What You'll Discover:Why most goals trigger your nervous system's threat responseThe difference between "away from" and "toward" goals and why it mattersHow to set True Goals that work with your nervous systemWhy willpower isn't the answer (and what actually creates sustainable change)If you've ever felt like you were fighting against yourself to achieve your goals, this episode will help you understand why - and show you what to do instead.Resources mentioned in this episode:Previous Episode: What Does the Nervous System Have to Do with Binge Eating?Cultivate: Jane's signature group program for creating sustainable change with food (opens in April - get on the waitlist to be notified)Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Binge Breakthrough Mini Series today.
What Does the Nervous System Have to Do With Binge Eating?
If you've been trying to use willpower to stop binge eating and it's not working, there's a reason. Your binges aren't about discipline or control - they're about your nervous system trying to bring you back to safety. In this foundational episode, you'll learn a simple framework for understanding your nervous system and why it matters so much for your relationship with food.What You'll Discover:• The "Home Base" framework for understanding your nervous system states• Why binges are actually your nervous system's attempt to regulate itself• The cycle that keeps you stuck (and how to start breaking it)• Simple tools for checking in with your nervous system throughout the dayIf you've ever felt like you know what you "should" do but can't seem to make yourself do it, this episode will help you understand why - and what to do instead.Resources mentioned in this episode:Episode: The Power of Co-RegulationThe Gathering: Monthly experience to slow down and listen to your inner wisdomWant to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Binge Breakthrough Mini Series today.
How to Develop Self-Trust with Dawn Ledet
Do you think you're a person who can't trust themselves around certain foods? Would you love to trust yourself but don't know how, or don't think it's possible for you? If you want to cultivate more self-trust in your life, this episode is for you. I'm joined by Dawn Ledet, the Self-Trust Coach, to talk about what self-trust is and how you can cultivate it in your life. Topics discussed:The definition of self-trustThe steps you can take starting today to create more self-trustHow to look for evidence that you already to have self-trust in your lifeThe importance of stillness and being able to hear your own inner guidance This is a conversation that will give you tangible action steps to create more self-trust in 2026 and beyond. Resources mentioned on the podcast:Self Trust Identity Map The Inner Room PracticeThe Inner Room (Book on Amazon) Want help in learning how to slow down, stop trying to fix yourself, and start learning to listen to yourself so that you can have more self-trust in your life? Join me inside The Gathering. (Join this week to access the 2026 Intention Setting & Alignment Workshop and lock in the founding members rate.)Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Binge Breakthrough Mini Series today.
How to Step Into 2026 Calm, Connected, and Confident
It's New Year's Eve, and you're probably already thinking about January 1st. About fresh starts and new resolutions. About finally getting it right this time. But what if instead of another promise to fix yourself, you could step into 2026 with something completely different?In this episode, we explore what it actually takes to create lasting change (hint: it's not more discipline or willpower), and I share a new offering I've created specifically to support this work.What You'll Discover:• Why January 1st won't change you (and what will)• How to set intentions that actually align with what you want• The difference between fixing yourself and reconnecting with yourself• A new monthly space designed for nervous system safety and self-trustImagine waking up in 2026 without the constant mental noise about food. Imagine trusting yourself, feeling calm in your body, and actually appreciating the life you have. It's possible—but not through another resolution.Join The Gathering: A monthly space to stop trying to fix yourself and start learning to listen to yourself. Learn more and join at janepilger.com/gatherSpecial January Offer: Join by January 10th to receive free access to the 90-minute Intention Setting and Alignment Workshop on January 12th at 5pm Eastern.Founding member rate available if you join by January 20th.Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Binge Breakthrough Mini Series today.
The Greatest Gift You Can Give Yourself This Holiday
It's Christmas Eve, and maybe you're already thinking about January 1st. Already making plans to finally fix yourself—to eat better, exercise more, have more control. But what if the greatest gift you could give yourself this holiday has nothing to do with fixing yourself at all?In this episode, we explore why the constant search for the next fix keeps you stuck, and what actually creates lasting change. What You'll Discover:• Why trying to fix yourself is actually keeping you stuck• What your body really needs instead of more control• How to rebuild self-trust from the inside out• The gift that actually changes everythingWhether the holidays are joyful or difficult for you, whether you're surrounded by loved ones or navigating loss, there's insight here that can help you break free from the fixing cycle.Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Binge Breakthrough Mini Series today.