ABCs of Parenting Adult Children

From Silence to Support: Parenting LGBTQ+ Adult Kids

Send us a textKey wordsLGBTQ+, parenting, grief, relationships, storytelling, empathy, personal growth, creativity, emotional intelligence, family dynamics, LGBTQ+, parenting, acceptance, emotional intelligence, family dynamics, identity, relationships, advice for parents, societal norms, validationsummaryIn this episode of the Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Paul Cramm about the intersection of creativity, empathy, and LGBTQ+ representation. The conversation delves into personal stories of loss, the complexities of parental relationships, and the importance of understanding and accepting diverse identities. Paul shares his experiences growing up in a fundamentalist environment and the challenges he faced in coming out, while James reflects on his relationship with his late son, Jeremy, who identified as LGBTQ+. Together, they explore the significance of open communication and the need for inclusive spaces for discussions about identity and family dynamics. In this conversation, Paul Cram and James Moffitt explore the complexities of growing up gay, the dynamics of family acceptance, and the importance of emotional intelligence in parenting. They reflect on their personal experiences, the societal changes regarding LGBTQ+ acceptance, and offer advice for parents on how to foster healthy relationships with their children. The discussion emphasizes the need for validation, understanding, and the freedom to pursue one's dreams and aspirations without the constraints of societal expectations.I Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Parenting Adult Children with Emotional Wisdom: Featuring Talia Bambola

Send us a textTalia is the CEO and Founder of Newport Counseling Center, Inc. and Coaching with Talia, Inc. She holds a Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology with an Emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy. Talia has completed post-graduate certification in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Psychoanalytic Couples Therapy and Infant, Child, and Adolescent Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy. Her work centers on uncovering the unconscious material within a client’s psyche to relieve psychic tension—inner conflict that often originates in early childhood and arises during times of intense stress or emotional turmoil. In other words, it all goes back to childhood. Once this is understood and tended to, we can reclaim our adult selves and be more authentic.  Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Navigating Parenting Challenges with Andrea Pollack

Send us a textKeywordsparenting, autism, neurodivergent, homeschooling, adaptive strategies, mindset shifts, self-regulation, empowerment, collaboration, Andrea PollackTakeawaysAndrea transitioned from law to homeschooling her autistic son, gaining insights into adaptive parenting.Understanding and collaboration are more effective than punishment in parenting.Parents should focus on self-regulation to better support their children.Mindset shifts are crucial for managing parenting stress.Parents are the best advocates for their children, knowing their needs intimately.Andrea's program emphasizes starting with the parent's self-regulation.Parenting strategies should be tailored to each child's unique needs.Parents can provide significant value beyond professional help.Andrea encourages parents to trust their instincts and embrace new parenting approaches.The podcast offers hope and empowerment for parents of neurodivergent children.Sound bites"Understanding over punishment." "Parents are the best advocates." "Mindset shifts manage stress." "Trust your parenting instincts." "Empowerment through self-regulation." "Collaboration, not punishment." "Hope for neurodivergent parenting." "Andrea's journey from law to homeschooling." "Value beyond professional help." "Embrace new parenting approaches."Chapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 Andrea's Transition from Law to Homeschooling00:00:00 Adaptive Parenting Strategies00:00:00 Mindset Shifts and Self-Regulation00:00:01 Empowerment and Collaboration in ParentingWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Skiing to Success: Ryan Delena's Story

Send us a textShow NotesIn this episode of the ABC's of Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes Robert C. Delena to discuss the transformative journey of his son, Ryan. The conversation delves into the challenges Ryan faced in therapeutic schools, the impact of skiing on his development, and the importance of finding passion in unconventional paths. Robert shares insights on parenting, challenging traditional methods, and the power of nature in emotional growth.Keywordsparenting, adult children, unconventional paths, skiing, emotional growth, therapeutic schools, passion, nature, Robert C. Delena, Ryan DelenaTakeawaysRobert Delena shares his son's journey through therapeutic schools.Skiing played a pivotal role in Ryan's emotional development.The importance of finding passion in unconventional paths.Challenging traditional parenting methods can lead to growth.The power of nature in emotional healing.Ryan's transformation from a troubled child to a thriving outdoorsman.The role of adventure in personal development.Insights into embracing creativity and resilience in parenting.The impact of skiing on Ryan's life and family.Encouragement for parents to explore unique paths for their children.Sound bitesTransformative power of skiing Challenging traditional parenting Nature's role in healing Ryan's journey to success Passion in unconventional paths Embracing creativity in parenting Skiing changed our lives Adventure and emotional growth Parenting with resilience Exploring unique pathsChapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 Robert Delena's Background00:00:00 The Boston Marathon Incident00:00:00 Ryan's Challenges and Therapeutic Schools00:00:01 The Impact of Skiing00:00:01 Ryan's Transformation and Current Life00:00:01 Parenting Insights and AdviceWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Emptying Out: A Guide to Emotional Release by Dr David Marcus

Send us a textIn this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes back Dr. David Marcus, a clinical psychologist specializing in families under stress. Dr. Marcus discusses the concept of a 'soothing presence' and the process of 'emptying out' emotions, emphasizing the importance of understanding emotional communication with children. He explains the three levels of emotional intensity: the logical here-and-now, the history level, and the tapped-into level, and how these need to be addressed for effective communication. The conversation also touches on the cultural and familial influences on emotional intelligence and the importance of validating feelings in relationships.Keywordsparenting, emotional communication, soothing presence, emptying out, emotional intelligence, family stress, Dr. David Marcus, James Moffitt, podcast, relationshipsTakeawaysA soothing presence is someone who is okay when you're not.Emotional communication involves understanding three levels: logical, history, and tapped-into.Emptying out emotions requires addressing all three levels for effective communication.Cultural and familial influences shape emotional intelligence.Validating feelings is crucial in relationships.Men often struggle with emotional expression due to cultural norms.Parents should avoid trying to 'make' children feel better, instead allowing them to express emotions.Children learn emotional resilience by observing adult interactions.Opposites attract in relationships, allowing partners to soothe each other.Effective communication involves both partners feeling heard and understood.Sound bitesA soothing presence is key.Emptying out emotions is essential.Validate feelings for better relationships.Men struggle with emotional expression.Children learn from adult interactions.Opposites attract in soothing relationships.Cultural norms shape emotional intelligence.Effective communication needs understanding.Parents shouldn't force emotions.Emotional resilience starts young.Chapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 Understanding Soothing Presence00:00:00 Emptying Out Process00:00:00 Cultural and Familial Influences00:00:01 Validating Feelings in Relationships00:00:01 Conclusion and Book PromotionWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.