ABCs of Parenting Adult Children

Fostering Respectful Relationships with Adult Children with Katherine Sellery

Send us a textSummary:**In this episode, Katherine Sellery, a renowned parenting coach, joins James Moffitt to discuss the challenges and strategies of parenting adult children. They explore the impact of emotional intelligence and communication, focusing on fostering respectful and empowered relationships beyond typical power struggles. Katherine shares insights from her experience and research, emphasizing the importance of connection over correction and the role of self-awareness in effective parenting.Keywords:parenting adult children, emotional intelligence, communication, power struggles, connection over correctionTakeaways:Retaliation, rebellion, and resistance are common reactions to authoritarian parenting.Emotional intelligence is crucial in navigating relationships with adult children.Connection should be prioritized over correction in family conflicts.Parents should focus on understanding rather than controlling their children.Self-awareness helps parents manage their emotional triggers.Observation without evaluation is key to effective communication.Perfectionism hinders creativity and self-esteem in children.Acknowledgment, not praise, fosters genuine self-esteem in children.Parents should model empathy and compassion to encourage the same in their children.Letting go of perfection allows for growth and exploration.Sound bites:"Retaliation, rebellion, and resistance are common.""Connection over correction is key.""Emotional intelligence is crucial.""Let go of perfection for growth.""Observation without evaluation is vital.""Acknowledge, don't praise, for self-esteem.""Model empathy and compassion.""Self-awareness helps manage triggers.""Foster respectful relationships.""Break free from power struggles."Chapters:00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 The Three Rs: Retaliation, Rebellion, Resistance00:00:00 Emotional Intelligence and Communication00:00:00 Connection Over Correction00:00:01 Self-Awareness and Emotional Triggers00:00:01 Letting Go of Perfection00:00:01 Conclusion and ResourcesIf you need further assistance or want to explore more options for promoting this episode, jusHello, James here !Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes.Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode. If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.mePlease share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

From Silence to Support: Parenting LGBTQ+ Adult Kids

Send us a textKey wordsLGBTQ+, parenting, grief, relationships, storytelling, empathy, personal growth, creativity, emotional intelligence, family dynamics, LGBTQ+, parenting, acceptance, emotional intelligence, family dynamics, identity, relationships, advice for parents, societal norms, validationsummaryIn this episode of the Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Paul Cramm about the intersection of creativity, empathy, and LGBTQ+ representation. The conversation delves into personal stories of loss, the complexities of parental relationships, and the importance of understanding and accepting diverse identities. Paul shares his experiences growing up in a fundamentalist environment and the challenges he faced in coming out, while James reflects on his relationship with his late son, Jeremy, who identified as LGBTQ+. Together, they explore the significance of open communication and the need for inclusive spaces for discussions about identity and family dynamics. In this conversation, Paul Cram and James Moffitt explore the complexities of growing up gay, the dynamics of family acceptance, and the importance of emotional intelligence in parenting. They reflect on their personal experiences, the societal changes regarding LGBTQ+ acceptance, and offer advice for parents on how to foster healthy relationships with their children. The discussion emphasizes the need for validation, understanding, and the freedom to pursue one's dreams and aspirations without the constraints of societal expectations.IHello, James here !Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes.Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode. If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.mePlease share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Parenting Adult Children with Emotional Wisdom: Featuring Talia Bambola

Send us a textTalia is the CEO and Founder of Newport Counseling Center, Inc. and Coaching with Talia, Inc. She holds a Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology with an Emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy. Talia has completed post-graduate certification in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Psychoanalytic Couples Therapy and Infant, Child, and Adolescent Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy. Her work centers on uncovering the unconscious material within a client’s psyche to relieve psychic tension—inner conflict that often originates in early childhood and arises during times of intense stress or emotional turmoil. In other words, it all goes back to childhood. Once this is understood and tended to, we can reclaim our adult selves and be more authentic. Hello, James here !Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes.Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode. If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.mePlease share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Navigating Parenting Challenges with Andrea Pollack

Send us a textKeywordsparenting, autism, neurodivergent, homeschooling, adaptive strategies, mindset shifts, self-regulation, empowerment, collaboration, Andrea PollackTakeawaysAndrea transitioned from law to homeschooling her autistic son, gaining insights into adaptive parenting.Understanding and collaboration are more effective than punishment in parenting.Parents should focus on self-regulation to better support their children.Mindset shifts are crucial for managing parenting stress.Parents are the best advocates for their children, knowing their needs intimately.Andrea's program emphasizes starting with the parent's self-regulation.Parenting strategies should be tailored to each child's unique needs.Parents can provide significant value beyond professional help.Andrea encourages parents to trust their instincts and embrace new parenting approaches.The podcast offers hope and empowerment for parents of neurodivergent children.Sound bites"Understanding over punishment." "Parents are the best advocates." "Mindset shifts manage stress." "Trust your parenting instincts." "Empowerment through self-regulation." "Collaboration, not punishment." "Hope for neurodivergent parenting." "Andrea's journey from law to homeschooling." "Value beyond professional help." "Embrace new parenting approaches."Chapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 Andrea's Transition from Law to Homeschooling00:00:00 Adaptive Parenting Strategies00:00:00 Mindset Shifts and Self-Regulation00:00:01 Empowerment and Collaboration in ParentingWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenHello, James here !Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes.Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode. If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.mePlease share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Skiing to Success: Ryan Delena's Story

Send us a textShow NotesIn this episode of the ABC's of Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes Robert C. Delena to discuss the transformative journey of his son, Ryan. The conversation delves into the challenges Ryan faced in therapeutic schools, the impact of skiing on his development, and the importance of finding passion in unconventional paths. Robert shares insights on parenting, challenging traditional methods, and the power of nature in emotional growth.Keywordsparenting, adult children, unconventional paths, skiing, emotional growth, therapeutic schools, passion, nature, Robert C. Delena, Ryan DelenaTakeawaysRobert Delena shares his son's journey through therapeutic schools.Skiing played a pivotal role in Ryan's emotional development.The importance of finding passion in unconventional paths.Challenging traditional parenting methods can lead to growth.The power of nature in emotional healing.Ryan's transformation from a troubled child to a thriving outdoorsman.The role of adventure in personal development.Insights into embracing creativity and resilience in parenting.The impact of skiing on Ryan's life and family.Encouragement for parents to explore unique paths for their children.Sound bitesTransformative power of skiing Challenging traditional parenting Nature's role in healing Ryan's journey to success Passion in unconventional paths Embracing creativity in parenting Skiing changed our lives Adventure and emotional growth Parenting with resilience Exploring unique pathsChapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 Robert Delena's Background00:00:00 The Boston Marathon Incident00:00:00 Ryan's Challenges and Therapeutic Schools00:00:01 The Impact of Skiing00:00:01 Ryan's Transformation and Current Life00:00:01 Parenting Insights and AdviceWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenHello, James here !Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes.Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode. If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.mePlease share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest interviSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.