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She Was Chugging Junk Food Men

PINECONES I'M OVER THE MOON! Mina was my anonymous guest in episode 10 of Closeted, "My First Boyfriend Suffered a Lot Because My Sex Drive Was Too High." (Listen here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/10-my-first-boyfriend-suffered-a-lot-because-my-sex/id1832942242?i=1000734016272) Back then, she was closeted, living with her parents, and maintaining a secret menagerie of lovers. Now, she's out of the closet and full of fresh, candid, tender, sexy updates - and holy hell, has she ever made CHANGES in the last two years.In this episode:The major family breakthrough that changed everything for MinaWhen sex becomes an escape instead of a source of joyGetting cut off by the friends she loves most - and how that led to her healingGrief, loneliness, and hitting rock bottomGraduating from her sexual mentorThe pressure to be the "perfect daughter"Junk food men, emotional support trout, and slutty salmonGetting rejected after perfectly fine sex—and being totally okay with itReopening her sexual HR recruiting department Why starting a stand-up comedy career is a great way to get laidMina's very shy domestic slave/puppyBisexuality, kissing women, and spreading her bi wingsFinding her voice through stand-up comedy in South KoreaLISTEN TO MINA'S ORIGINAL CLOSETED EPISODE:Episode 10: My First Boyfriend Suffered a Lot Because My Sex Drive Was Too Highhttps://podcasts.apple.com/bm/podcast/10-my-first-boyfriend-suffered-a-lot-because-my-sex/id1832942242?i=1000734016272FOLLOW MINA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jungmal.mina/Stand Up Seoul: https://www.instagram.com/standupseoul_official/SEE MINA LIVE & SUPPORT NORTH KOREAN REFUGEES:Stand-Up Comedy Show for Freedom Speakers International (FSI)Saturday, August 22 | 8:00 PMTaco Amigo, ItaewonAll proceeds benefit Freedom Speakers International, a Seoul-based nonprofit that provides English public speaking, mentorship, and career development to North Korean refugees.Learn more: https://lovefsi.org/Advance tickets: https://www.standup-seoul.com/event-details/charity-comedy-show-freedom-speakers-internationalSUPPORT HAPPY SLUT:Subscribe to Samia's Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcastTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcastQuestions, thoughts, feedback, dreams and wishes: happyslutcast@gmail.comShare this episode with the friend who's been fishing for emotional support trout in a pond full of slutty salmon.xoxo,Samia

You Can't Hate Yourself Thin

One of the biggest things making a joyful sex life hard to cultivate in patriarchy is our collective acceptance of patriarchal beauty standards. These bullshit standards have convinced almost everyone that they're not sexy. IT'S A LIE, PINECONES, IT'S A DIRTY LIIIIIIIE. All sorts of bodies are sexy, all sorts of people are sexy, and there really is someone for everyone - but only if we are able to deprogram patriarchy's fuckery from our minds and see ourselves for who and what we really are. Fat rolls aren't gross and cellulite isn't disgusting. Wrinkles are not something you have to hide to be beautiful. These ideas are just the lies of patriarchal capitalism trying to make you think you need to spend money and starve yourself to be lovable.Reality check: You are lovable RIGHT EFFING NOW. Listen to me read my Substack essay, You Can't Hate Yourself Thin, in this week's audio-only solo episode.In this episode:Why I went audio-only this week - I'm on a semi-real vacation visiting my mom for her 79th birthday!The lie patriarchy teaches about which bodies are allowed to be sexyHitting my lifelong goal weight in 2019, and the fucked-up sense of "benevolent superiority" that came with itThe self-love weight-loss advice I used to smugly hand out like gospel *cringe*How gaining the weight back spiraled into daily compulsive eating and shameMy New York trip, the naked mirror incident, and the moment my internal sex machine screeched to a haltGrowing up in a family that taught me to fear food and fatThe baloney incident — my earliest memory of learning fat was badThe Atkins diet, the watermelon breakdown, and finally learning what hunger actually feels likeThe relationship epiphany in my mid-twenties that unlocked real, fast, joyful weight lossCrying into my ex's chest and realizing my "self-love" had a body-shaped asterisk on itWhat I'm doing now to reprogram myselfWhy the obsession with one "correct" body is patriarchy's rulebook, not the truth — and how we get free of itSUPPORT THE SHOW! Subscribe to my Substack: samiamounts.substack.com Instagram: @samia.mounts & @happyslutcast TikTok: @happyslutcast YouTube: @happyslutcastSend this one to the friend who's white-knuckling a diet right now, convinced that this time it'll finally fix how she feels about herself...and to the friend who compliments everyone else's body but never her own.xoxo, SamiaMentioned in this episode:Get 15% off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro course at www.kennethplay.com/closetedGet a 15% discount on all FirmTech products!Use code CLOSETED at check-out.

When One Partner's Kinky & the Other Isn't with Amanda Dames

Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, loves helping couples struggling to reconcile a mismatch in their desires, specifically surrounding kink. She's a certified Somatica sex and relationship coach and certified sexologist who specializes in couples where one partner is kinky and the other one isn't, and the way she works with them will change how you think about asking for what you want, whether your fantasy involves rope or just finally being taken to a dinner you didn't have to plan.In this episode:- Why both monogamy and polyamory require partners to make sacrifices, and no one wants to talk about it- Amanda's first coaching move isn't catering to the kinky partner, it's finding out what the vanilla partner actually wants- Why "I don't have any fantasies" is almost never true- The massage problem: why her ask and his ask are way closer than either of them thinks- Porn vs. romance novels — both are erotic material, but only one gets made fun of by men- Nine out of ten of Amanda's clients are husbands who want to submit (and her theory on why the dominant ones are all from New Jersey)- Amanda's ten-session process with couples, laid out start to finish- Why she thinks communication is NOT the most important thing in relationships- The most freeing thing you'll hear if you're scared to top someone — they're already doing 90% of the work- Subspace, dom flow, and finding your authentic dominant instead of playing a role- Amanda gets real about her own jealousy, and says something out loud she never has before- How patriarchy cuts men off from their vulnerability and women off from their powerFOLLOW AMANDA:Join her free monthly group for women exploring their dominant side — email info@thekinkconsultant.com with a photo or social handleWebsite: https://amandadames.comThe Kink Consultant Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3psOpSZMQQYm2cN69bIKwcInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultantJoin Amanda at Hedonism for Swinkation (use code TKC50 for up to $400 off): https://www.swinkation.com/SUPPORT THE SHOW!Subscribe to My Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcastTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcastShare this episode with anyone who's been sitting on the same fantasy for fifteen years, or with the partner who'd actually want to hear it if it came at them a little slower.xoxo,SamiaMentioned in this episode:Get a 15% discount on all FirmTech products!Use code CLOSETED at check-out.Get 15% off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro course at www.kennethplay.com/closeted

Teaching Men to Flirt with Marni Kinrys of the Wing Girl Method

Marni Kinrys is the dating coach of every nervous, awkward man's dreams, pinecones. She developed her Wing Girl Method over years of watching good men fumble every time they try to connect with women - and her practical techniques for sparking attraction will make you more confident connecting with others, no matter who you are.In this episode:Why the "nice guy" is just the other side of the asshole coinThe tiny reframe that changes everything: from "what can I get from her?" to "what do I actually want to know about her?"Why so many men literally can't flirt—and why it's a mindset before it's a skillMarni's wildest exercise: sending guys to ask 10 women if they think he's sexy (and what the women actually say)Her flirting frameworks, decoded: OSA (Observe, Share, Ask) and LCA (Learn, Confirm, Affirm)The truth about the Manosphere: the real nuggets buried in all the poisonWhy you don't need six-pack abs or six figures—and what actually makes a face "morph" into hotGiving good men permission to go after what they actually wantHow patriarchy quietly wrecks men, tooFOLLOW MARNI:Grab her free flirting cheat sheet: https://winggirlmethod.com/flirtcsWebsite: https://winggirlmethod.comPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-get-the-girl-an-ask-women-podcast/id651219242YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/marnikinrysInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/winggirlmethod/SUPPORT THE SHOW!Subscribe to My Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcastTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcastShare this episode with a good man who can't figure out why he's still single, or with any woman who's exhausted from trying to explain men to themselves.xoxo,SamiaMentioned in this episode:Get a 15% discount on all FirmTech products!Use code CLOSETED at check-out.Get 15% off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro course at www.kennethplay.com/closeted

Become Your Own Best Lover with Annette Benedetti

My new crush Annette Benedetti — intimacy coach and host of Talk Sex with Annette — is one of the most joyful, flirty humans I've ever talked sex with. And she got here the hard way: surviving assault at 13, a town that acted like it was her fault, and decades of healing before finding her voice again. This is the story movies never tell — the part after, where you survive, you still want sex, and you go on to build the wildly happy erotic life the world tried to take away from you. This is the story I want for all survivors.In this one we get into:The misogynistic atmosphere that groomed Annette as a young girl, and the story her town told instead of the truthWhat patriarchy does to survivors (and why the conventional-wife "happy ending" is a myth)Reclaiming her voice and how President Trump unwittingly inspired her podcastBecoming her own best lover: her free 365 Days of Orgasms journeyA love letter to the G-spot and A-spot - yum!Testosterone, perimenopause, and libido after 40Layered sensation, patterns, and a very practical toy tutorialWhether you're a survivor, a late bloomer, or just body-curious, come get lit up with us, pinecones.The toys Annette gushed about: Womanizer Blend & Enhance — womanizer.com, code ANNETTE15 for 15% off.Find Annette: talksexwithannette.com · Instagram · TikTok & Facebook @talksexwithannette · the Talk Sex with Annette podcastHear me on her show: A Bi Girl's Guide to Better Sex — a goldmine if you love pleasing women and vulva owners.Come find me & the show: @samia.mounts · show @happyslutcast (IG + TikTok) · happyslutcast@gmail.com. I read every DM and email — send me your thoughts and advice questions!Support Happy Slut 💕 Become a paying subscriber at samiamounts.substack.com — my latest essay is all about why I love sharing my lovers with my friends (half's behind the paywall 😏). Prefer to tip? Venmo @Samia-Mounts or CashApp $SamiaMounts. Can't pay? Sharing this episode with a friend who needs it is even better.Take one sec to leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review — it's how new happy sluts find us.Next week: Marni Kinrys, your personal Wing Girl, on why men can't flirt — and why fixing it is basically a mental-health intervention.Do something pleasurable this weekend, sweethearts.xoxo,SamiaMentioned in this episode:Get 15% off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro course at www.kennethplay.com/closetedGet a 15% discount on all FirmTech products!Use code CLOSETED at check-out.