Break Your Dating Patterns: Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Partners

Are you tired of feeling like you're starring in your own dating version of Groundhog Day? Do you wonder why you keep attracting the same partners, or why your relationships keep ending in familiar heartbreak? What if breaking those old patterns and creating the love life you want is less about finding a different person—and more about becoming a different you? In Episode 427 of The Charisma Quotient, "Break Your Dating Patterns: Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Partners" Kimmy dives deep into the cycles that keep you stuck in frustrating dating loops.

 

Using real-life client stories, Kimmy explains how childhood experiences and past relationships unconsciously influence who we are drawn to in adulthood. She shares actionable strategies to increase your emotional IQ, set healthy boundaries, interrupt self-sabotaging habits, and shift your mindset toward authentic, intentional dating. Whether you're newly single or a seasoned dater, you'll learn how to rewrite your relationship script, attract emotionally available partners, and turn the coming year into a breakthrough for your love life.

You'll hear:

• Why dating can feel like "Groundhog Day"—and what's really behind those repeating patterns.

• Actionable exercises to flip your dating autopilot and start new, healthy habits.

• Why setting micro-boundaries on dates can jump-start your confidence and attract better partners.

• The difference between chemistry and familiarity 

If hitting refresh on your dating game is part of your 2026 resolutions and you're ready to break your old dating patterns and show up more confidently, join Kimmy's co-ed Authentic Dating Workshop. Learn how to express yourself, build real connections, and conquer dating fears. Register here www.stophatingdating.com and grab your spot. 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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