Hand in Hand Parenting: The Podcast
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No matter how well we try and prepare for parenting, this role does lots to point out what feel like failings. We might not be able to comfort our kids as we imagined we would, we might find ourselves yelling, or stressed and in moments of complete overwhelm.
This happens to all of us from time to time. Even child therapists, teachers and nannies and child carers can find themselves lost in handling their parenting challenges with their own kids.
This week on the podcast Elle and Abigail talk about why.
Why You Don't Always Have the Right MapAnd the answer is simple: You can't give what you didn't have.
When we butt up against something in our parenting it's most often because there are gaps from our own childhoods when it comes to that challenge.
If you weren't allowed to cry, how can you know how to listen well when your child cries. If your parents were permissive, how can you set effective limits? If your parents shouted at you, how do you learn how not to yell, even when you really want to?
Finding new ways to handle these challenges can feel incredibly hard when you have no past reference to get you there. No guide, no roadmap, no community, no support.
Why You Can't Give What You Just Didn't Have: Finding and Filling the GapsThis week, Elle and Abigail tell stories about the gaps they found in their parenting and they show you how you can pinpoint what you didn't get in your childhood and how to change it.
Because if there's one thing we do know, once you parent the way want, intentionally, you imprint a whole new set of skills to your children to use in life and as parents.
If you have stressors in your parenting and aren't sure how to find new, workable ways to deal with them join us this week talking about why you can't give what you didn't have.
Find Your Parenting Village OnlineIt goes without saying that our website is chock-full of resources for learning new ways and leaning into them. Please use search to get tips on just about any parenting challenge.
Here is some great information on Listening Time and Partnerships:
Establishing Good Listening Partnerships and Knowing When to Move On Building a Listening Partnership Welcome to the Club!And here is everything you need to know about finding your online village with the Hand in Hand Parent Club.
With private group moderated by instructors, weekly call-in live sessions and a lively community you can get the support you need every month to be the parent you want to be.
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A Four-Point Plan for Getting Back to School With Less Stress
A Little Lite Listening Partnerships Demonstration
Sibling Rivalry: Abigail and Elle Talk Soothing Sibling Battles with Evie Granville
What To Do When The Kids Go Wild!
"Am I a Useless Parent?" Why There's no "pass" or "Fail" in Parenting
Getting Past a Child's Perfectionism: What Drives Children's Rigid Behaviors?
"Let's NOT talk about the kids": What Can You Do When Parenting Feels Lonely
Celebrate Your Microwins: Learning to Let Your Kids Win a Little When You Set Limits
Kids and the Art of Travelling With Them
Angels Away, Hellions at Home: Why Do Some Kids Save Their "Bad" Behavior for Home?
How Much is Too Much? Tools to Help Children that Need Constant Attention
Rethinking Tickling: Why You Might Want To Rethink Tickling Kids
Raising Boys and Girls Differently According to Brain Science
Why Telling Your Birth Story Can Help In Your Parenting
Tips and Tools for Tackling Transitions
Parenting Consistently: A New Approach That Actually Works
Listening to You: Real-Life Stories From Parents Using Hand in Hand Parenting Tools
The Politics of Parenting: Feeling Good About Your Role as a Parent
Embracing Aggressive and Risky Play Helps Us and Our Kids
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