The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction Podcast
Education:Self-Improvement
The Kairos Centre Recovery Programme is about the couple recovery, not only the person with the addiction behaviours - where you are in a partnered relationship.
Sit in the seat or walk in the shoes of the partner affected and see life from their vantage point - if you dear - if you can!
Difficult to stay with it since to do so means subduing and turning off inclinations toward narcissism. Take a glimpse through their lens before narcissism kids back in. Empathise with their pain. Even that empathy will take you only so far in your quest for sobriety.
"White knuckling it" will last only so long. It runs out of puff? "Round and round the mulberry bush you go" again after a short while.
Remember that the umbrella of Shame covers both of you and so will also take the partner into hiding as well as you.
The Kairos Centre work with multiple numbers of partners (particularly female partners) adversely affected and traumatised by the addiction behaviours of the other. Let us support you.
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The Kairos Centre created one of the world's first comprehensive Online Webinar Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme; where you discover the real, authentic you. Please visit our website to learn more about this course and our services at www.kairos-centre.com or email info@kairos-centre.com
Now launched: A Video-on-Demand Online Course (for Singles, Couples/Marrieds/Partners) Access here - https://www.kairos-centre.com/changement-on-demand/
Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs) is a Relate trained and experienced Relationship counsellor, Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction treatment. He is also a member of the National Counselling Society, the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) as an Accredited EMDR Practitioner, working with clients globally via secure webcam.
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Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy | Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt | Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Healing Journeys | Intimacy Building | Healthy Relationships | Empowerment | Childhood Development | Parental Influence | Family Dynamics | Attachment Theory | Early Experiences | Coping Mechanisms | Emotional Regulation Techniques | Resilience Building | Social Support | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy | Mindfulness Practices | Self-Compassion | Inner Child Work | Boundary Setting | Trauma-Informed Care | Psychoeducation | Emotional Awareness |
The younger a female experiences arousal, the greater the number of casual sex partners
Around aged 17, six times the number of males become addicted to porn than young females
Relapse prevention: There should be signs of a reclaimed quality life from Sex, Porn, Love Addiction, without shame and with added colour
Carve out your Safety Plan for maintaining Sex, Porn Love Addiction sobriety and avoid Relapse
Sometimes a Sex, Porn, Love Addiction sobriety day requires that you just R.U.N
Don't believe the lie - during your Sex, Porn, Love Addiction thinking Distortion
Negative CORE BELIEFS about self leads to Sex, Porn Love Addiction self-soothing
Trauma related Triggers: Know yours in Sex, Porn Love Addiction Recovery
Even in Sex, Porn, Love Addiction, Change is a process, not a one time event
EMDR is tussling for its turn - in Sex, Porn, Love Addiction Recovery Work
Changed cognition/thinking is the first step to changed Sex, Porn, Love Addiction
Sex and Porn Addiction is not about porn images
Childhood development has got questions to answer when it comes to Sex, Porn & Love Addiction
Attachment style: I'm not Insecurely ATTACHED at all! How dare you suggest so
Attachment Style: ATTACH(MENT) to me, but not too close; closer, but not that close
Give me my Porn: Fight/Flight/Freeze - there are benefits - not!
Narcissism vs Empathy: in Porn, Sex, Love Addiction
SHAME + NARCISSISTIC TRAITS = SEX ADDICTION
Taking Responsibility - for your choices in Sex, Porn, Love Addiction behaviours
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